I had a call with a hottie who made an offer online…
a TRUE offer
not an offer to ‘get’
just truth being expressed in a moment
which was an absolute edge for her
because she had ‘exposed’ herself by doing so
and when ‘nothing happened’ (impossible)
when her so-called ‘bold’ offer (bold only to her because of said edge in that moment) wasn’t responded to right away by her audience (silly human thinking it knows the when or the how and thinking something is ‘wrong’ if things don’t ‘happen’ in a specific way on some arbitrary timeline decided by the very small human mind)…
she felt so insecure and anxious about her offer (made in a moment of truth - making it the ultimate success regardless of next),
that she wanted to delete her post.
But if she was on a call with me of all people, what she actually wanted was to ride her edge even further.
I told her the only thing she needs to do is be with her (temporary) internal chaos and do what needs to be done until it’s still inside.
Because the issue isn’t the offer or the ‘lack’ of response from her audience.
The opportunity is to be bigger than the internal noise and external appearances.
To not move while the mind moves and while nothing seems to be moving ‘out there’.
To not act in response to the chatter of an unharnessed mind that has no idea what the fuck is actually going on.
To be in charge of what’s happening ‘in here’, regardless of externals (and the mind is an external).
She was ready.
She stayed still.
She didn’t delete her offer.
And she made her biggest sale in business so far.
(100K)
P.S. If she, once still inside, STILL chose to delete her post, that would have been perfect and TRUE; not reactionary and compensatory. And, if she deleted it at the start because of her anxiety, it’s not like she would have ‘lost’ a thing. Everything is used and makes us more. She could have posted it again the next day (or even an hour later) or right after our call from a more solid place. Get it? It’s never about the thing itself. It’s about what you’re doing inside yourself with whatever is happening and not happening.
P.P.S. If you’re ready to go beyond your human bullshit so you can taste and touch what you know you’re actually here for, book a call with me here and we can chat til there’s nothing left.
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