Mentoring

The Real Secret (An Essay)

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no one who actually KNOWS who they are

(God in human form)

has any ‘secrets’ to share

or to ‘keep’ from or for select folks

because everyone who KNOWS what’s up

is pointing to the EXACT. SAME. THING.

(and there is only one ‘thing’)

via whatever lens / language they experience it through

so no one is ‘wrong’ or more ‘advanced’

for how they ‘arrived’ at the only answer there is

and of course if they touched the God within through meditation / dance / partnership / scripture / music (or whatever the fuck it was)

they believe that THIS. THING. IS. THE. ANSWER.

(because that was the entry point for them)

so that is what they ‘practice’ and ‘teach’ and try to ‘make solid’ through form

(and maybe they even build science or something else around it to ‘prove’ this thing is IT)

that THIS. IS. THE. WAY.

(without question)

because “I ‘found’ God here

and now you can, too”

no.

EVERY way is THE WAY

and no ‘way’ is (also) the way

and God is in ALL things

not just your thing

#sillygoose

but people use constructs and the limitation of words to attempt to express what can’t truly be expressed

it only can be experienced

now or not at all

through whatever form that takes

so…

as humans

we are limited in that sense

(and in many other ways, of course)

but TRUTH. NEVER. CHANGES.

and when you experience IT

of course you want to name IT

and frame IT

and maybe even sell IT

to those you believe ‘need’ IT

and you may even be delusional enough

and arrogant enough

and ignorant enough

to think you actually discovered something new

(again… #sillygoose)

but like i said in a previous Mandy Bite,

“The truth has been here this whole time.”

which means…

just because you’re new to the scene

doesn’t make the scene new

and…

just because they claim

to know something you don’t

doesn’t make it actually true

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Losing Her Millionaire Status (An Essay)

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The hottie in my Money Myth session who was a millionaire…

and then was not a millionaire…

(only financially speaking, of course — because energetically she is, and has always been, a fucking bazillionaire)

was now able to clearly see

through her own lived experience

that having

and not having

a fuckton of money

didn’t say a damn thing about her.

Nor did having all that money quell her fears and insecurities surrounding money.

Nor was the ‘issue’ ever about money.

It was only about her,

and her experience of,

and within,

herself,

out-pictured onto money.

Because a fat bank account will never do your inner work for you.

But it will sure as hell highlight what you’ve already got going on behind the scenes.

So…

if you want to be free of your hang-ups around money…

MORE than you want more of the illusion that is money,

you’re gonna LOVE my money book.

And,

you’re gonna LOVE this Sunday’s session on Real Money Freedom.

Hope to see you there!

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Real Money Freedom (An Essay)

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‘Money freedom’ isn’t about money.

And yes, it includes money.

If you are feeling stuck / bound / capped by your current money situation, or just feeling really fucking ready for your ‘next level’ of wealth and you’re not sure what needs to shift to ‘get’ (t)here,

it’s an easy ‘fix’.

Because there is only one ‘solution’ to every perceived ‘problem’.

Join me this Sunday, November 23rd to see through money and dissolve whatever you’ve put in the way of you and your dollars, and everything else that is already here for you.

3 hours of pure gold (with two breaks in between) as you recalibrate yourself to wealth aka your true self, that is showing you exactly what to do every step of the way (including investing in this invitation if you are truly feeling the pull)…

if only you’d get and stay out of the way.

You will ‘learn’ (remember):

  • why you ‘split’ and how not to

  • why ‘money problems’ have nothing to do with money and how to correct said ‘problem’

  • why consistency in the physical isn’t required to make bank

  • why you don’t have to ‘figure out’ how to make money and why there’s nothing you need to ‘do’ to ‘get’ IT

  • why ‘lack’ is make-believe and how your experience of it can switch in an instant

  • why you don’t have to ‘earn’ / ‘deserve’ / be ‘worthy’ of money to get a fuckton of it

  • why you ‘block’ money and the only tweak you need to unobstruct the flow

As well as a few things we covered in The Money Myth back in August including:

  • what money is (and isn’t)

  • why it comes (and why it doesn’t)

  • what purifies and elevates your experience with money (and what pollutes and dilutes it)

  • what your current money situation is telling you (and what it’s calling you to do like NOW to ‘correct’ it)

  • why you feel insecure about / with money (and what to do with the fear and anxiety you have around it)

And anything else that comes up.

So let me turn you upside down and right side up on the subject that gets most people’s knickers in a twist.

My kinda fun.

Deets:

  • Sunday, November 23rd

  • 10am-1pm EST

  • $500 in your currency

  • Recording available for those who attend and for sale for those who don’t ($500 USD)

P.S. If you pay by November 20th at midnight EST, you’ll receive a complimentary download of You Don't Need This Money Book to devour before the session.

It’s crisp and hella delicious.

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You Are Fully Equipped (An Essay)

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My calls have never been about ‘helping’ someone figure out what to ‘do’ to ‘get’ anything in any area of their life.

They already know.

And I know they know.

Because every person on the planet already fucking knows EXACTLY what to do in every area and moment of their life to ‘get’ what is here for them.

And they are the only ones privy to that.

And the coordinates are always shifting.

And…

I don’t have access to anyone’s system.

Nor do I need or want it.

But being fully locked into mine,

automatically connects them to theirs.

And you to yours if you’ve been slippin’.

Because it’s always here.

Not there.

You’re being told 24/7/365 how to navigate each moment and situation,

and everything that is and isn’t happening is unfolding perfectly and accurately for you.

Your system (just like mine and everyone else’s) is brilliant and fully equipped with all you need.

So that is not the ‘issue’.

You are not without direction and clarity.

Ever.

So if there is an ‘issue’,

it is because you haven’t been listening.

And you are not doing

what you’re being told to do,

even when you hear it.

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Enjoying The Fruits of Their Labour (An Essay)

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Her: “Just thinking of you because I have so many conversations with you to whip myself back to myself! Just had a real good one today!”

Me: “You mean you gave yourself a good whipping through my voice in your head?”

Her: “Yes!!! It’s like... if I called Mandy about this so-called "problem"… well, we all know what happens after that lol”

So fun and so true.

My dreamy clients know we don’t do calls to tend to their bullshit.

They do their own fucking work and THEN book the call to enjoy the fruits of their labour with a hottie whose being refines it even further.

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Isn't It Funny? (An Essay)

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if circumstances aren’t real

and problems aren’t real

and the past isn’t real

and your story isn’t real

isn’t it funny

that you hire a coach

based on circumstances

you deem as a problem

based on a past

you’re bringing into the present

via the story

you’ve got running through your head

so you can dive further

into your own delusion

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Before You Buy The Program (An Essay)

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If you’re paying a money / relationship / whatever the fuck coach…

whose ‘job’ it is to ‘help’ you

‘clear your blocks’

(you don’t have any)

‘see your worth’

(not a thing)

‘heal’ you-name-it

(never gonna happen)

‘get’ / ‘attract’ / ‘manifest’

(i can’t even)

the money

the relationship

whatever the fuck

using whatever methods / systems / programs / containers

they’ve concocted or replicated…

just notice that they, too,

are starting and operating from a false premise.

They, too,

are buying into

(and benefitting from)

your story

that something is lacking

(the money / the relationship / the self-worth / whatever the fuck)

and they are selling you a ‘solution’ to this perceived lack,

this perceived ‘problem’

or else why would they have ‘created’ a way to ‘fix’ it?

To ‘change’ your ‘reality’ from A to B?

(effectively buying into the same illusion as you - #matchymatchy)

Why else would such a thing be necessary…

if they knew,

and you knew,

that you are innately sovereign and powerful.

And that you don’t need add-ons or a guidebook in being who you are and moving naturally from that,

which ‘gets’ you all the things without needing to rely on a thing.

Why would they be selling a program if they knew and you knew that there’s nothing wrong or missing.

That it’s all right here, right now.

That you have it all.

That you are all of it.

That at best, the ‘tools’ and ‘processes’ and ‘gurus’ are what you use to finally give yourself permission to be what you already are without them.

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The Money Myth (An Essay)

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Join me this Sunday from 11am-1pm EST on Zoom for a gorgeous conversation on the energy of money and true wealth.

This deep dive will explore:

  • what money is (and isn’t)

  • why it comes (and why it doesn’t)

  • what purifies and elevates your experience with money (and what pollutes and dilutes it)

  • what your current money situation is telling you (and what it’s calling you to do like NOW to ‘correct’ it)

  • why you feel insecure about / with money (and what to do with the fear and anxiety you have around it)

  • why you don’t need to ‘earn’ / ‘deserve’ / be ‘worthy’ of money to ‘get’ it (while knowing it’s for you, regardless)

And so much more.

$275 USD

Price increases in 24 hours like last time.

This is just the ‘hop on it now’ price because you already know whether or not this ride is for you.

And…

if you pay within the next 24 hours, you’ll get my digital gem, You Don't Need This Money Book, for 1/2 price (link will be sent once you’ve secured your spot).

See you if I see you!

P.S. If you don’t feel deeply and completely satisfied by the end of Sunday’s ‘Money Myth’ conversation…

and CRYSTAL. FUCKING. CLEAR…

and you don’t have every single question that you could ever want answered about money and your own situation — answered…

I’ll give you your money back right after the call.

And…

I can guarantee you won’t want your money back.

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Owing 52K In Taxes (An Essay)

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“I was expecting and saving for 20-25k in taxes but certainly didn’t expect that to be doubled. But it didn’t phase me and still doesn’t. There was even something hot about seeing the money go. And though I have had to cool it on the bigger spontaneous purchases, I have not changed anything else about my lifestyle. I still feel wealthy. And love seeing the account growing again.”

The above message I received today is what REAL ‘money freedom’ looks and feels like.

Having ZERO hang ups or illusions about money so that you’re cool no matter what and you know how to ‘make’ whatever the fuck you want.

This hottie owed 52K in taxes this year and she had 56K between two accounts and paid her debt it in full (HOT) and didn’t fucking flinch over how ‘little’ remained (SUPER HOT).

THIS is what MY work is about.

FREEDOM. ON. EVERY. LEVEL.

Because ‘money freedom’ is not about fucking money.

And yes, it includes money.

But it’s not about the accumulation of it.

And yes, you can stack as many dollars as you like.

REAL ‘money freedom’ is about the truth of it.

It’s about seeing through your own bullshit that’s in the way of it moving as freely and as naturally as it’s meant to.

And feeling so certain in your power and ability to generate it,

that even if all that money ‘goes away’ for a hot second,

it’s no biggie because you know how money ACTUALLY works so you never fear ‘losing’ it or not having ‘enough’ of it.

If this is how you want to exist,

(and you already do when you have zero shit in the way)

and how you wanna play with dollars,

(and everything else in your life)  

and true freedom is your North Star,

(not the fucking money)

I’m the bitch you wanna talk to.

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Don't Hire A Mentor Unless... (An Essay)

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A while back I was messaging with a hottie who was telling me about her experience with a mentor we both know.

And she mentioned how it didn’t ‘work’.

But like…

only one thing actually works and you can’t get that ‘from’ a mentor or anyone else.

And typically those who pay to work with mentors (at least from what I’ve seen in the space I’ve moved through and out of),

are those who already don’t trust themselves and are looking outside of themselves for answers,

and they are hoping that this next mentorship / person / course / whatever the fuck will be that golden ticket that can override the work that only they can do.

But no one can do it for you.

No one’s ‘paradigm’ can save you from yourself if what you truly want is to be free of yourself and of all paradigms.

#theultimatemission

You’re either meeting and facing and working with what’s already inside of you in each moment or you’re not.

There are no tricks or tools or techniques that can help you do that specific thing.

But there are plenty of them if you want to feel like you’re doing something along the way.

And I’m stating the obvious here: no one on this planet is responsible for what you do or don’t do inside of yourself and with your life.

If you were / are leaning on, and looking to, another person,

instead of erecting, and daring to look inside, yourself,

you’re going to end up disappointed.

(but only until you see through why you felt the need to do that in the first place, and then you will see that it was absolutely perfect)

So…

If you are hiring someone to ‘get’ something,

(not the vibe)

that is your first clue that you’re signing up for shit that won’t do shit for you except be an experience that you will look back on to realize that you abandoned yourself and ignored your knowing because you thought someone else knew or had something you don’t.

You were looking for permission to trust what you already know.

And to do what you already wanted to do.

But you don’t need a mentor for that.

And…

Paying to play with someone for the fun and the thrill and the pleasure and the truth of it…

is another thing entirely.

DO THAT.

And…

it’s not ultimately a problem that you looked, or continue to look, to others for what is already available inside of you.

Because eventually and inevitably,

you won’t do that anymore.

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Frame And Submit (An Essay)

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Most people want the thing (whatever it is) without actually having to submit to themselves.

Moment-by-moment.

Not just once or once in a while.

That’s why they do / try all the things to ‘get’ the thing EXCEPT the only thing that works.

They’ll try everything BUT that.

Well…

that’s not even accurate.

You can’t ‘try’ to submit.

You either do it or you don’t.

And most people don’t because it’s wild as fuck and the noise or the silence is too much to withstand.

They want the comfort of the known while craving the unknown and then curse the gods for what they can’t ‘get’.

And…

Your current and forevermore work is to erect yourself enough to frame every aspect of yourself and your life so that each piece is clean and truly sourced from you.

From truth;

not from compensation.

And most people won’t do that.

Many don’t even care to do that.

But if you’re hungry for the potent purity that is YOU,

the only way to ‘get’ IT,

is to submit.

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Don't Delete That Post (An Essay)

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i had a call with a hottie who made an offer online

a TRUE offer

not an offer to ‘get’

just truth being expressed in a moment

and…

this was an absolute edge for her

because she had ‘exposed’ herself by doing so

and when ‘nothing happened’

(impossible)

when her so-called ‘bold’ offer

(bold only to her because of said edge in that moment)

wasn’t responded to right away by her audience

(silly human thinking it knows the when or the how and thinking that something is ‘wrong’ if things don’t ‘happen’ in a specific way on some arbitrary timeline decided by the very small human mind)

she felt insecure and anxious about her offer

(made in a moment of truth, remember — making it the ultimate success regardless of next)

and she wanted to delete her post

(naturally)

but if she was on a call with me of all people

what she actually wanted was to ride her edge even further

so i told her that the only thing she needs to do is be with her (temporary) internal chaos and do what needs to be done until it’s still inside

because the ‘issue’ isn’t the offer or the ‘lack’ of response from her audience

the opportunity is to be bigger than the internal noise and external appearances

to not move while the mind moves and while nothing seems to be moving

to not act in response to the chatter of an unharnessed mind that has no idea what the fuck is actually going on

to be in charge of what’s happening ‘in here’ regardless of externals

(and the mind is an external)

and…

she was ready

she stayed still

she didn’t delete her offer

and…

she made her biggest sale in business so far

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P.S. If she, once still inside, STILL chose to delete her post, that would have been perfect and true; not reactionary and compensatory. And, if she deleted it at the start because of her anxiety, she would not have ‘lost’ a thing because everything is used to refine even further. She could have posted it again the next day (or even an hour later), with or without a tweak, or right after our call from a more stable place. Get it? It’s never about the thing itself. It’s about what you’re doing inside yourself with whatever is or isn’t happening.

The $1700 Edge (One Minute Clip)

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Her: “I’m testing the boundaries at the moment. I’m working with another teacher who you know, and just before I made an offer on this MasterClass, I had a session with her, and she had tested me and said, “Okay. Well, what do you feel comfortable offering?” kind of thing, and I felt like I handled it quite well. But I really struggled when it came to yours because there was nobody holding my hand, but I pushed myself with it as well. You were like, “Offer what’s true.” and I sat there with it and then I felt for my edges and I got to this point and I was like, “Oh, my God. I’m gonna do this thing on top of this other thing. I just did that and then I’m gonna do this”. And I was like but this is the only thing that feels right. Like I can’t, I couldn’t offer you anything else. There was nothing else I could give you that would be true. And I was just like okay, this is where I gotta go.”

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  1. My work is not for everyone. It’s barely for anyone. But for those whom it was made, nothing else will do. 

  2. If you need or want something from a call with me, it’s not time for a call with me.

  3. I had to go beyond all of them.

  4. It’s all your own (un)doing.

  5. Tools keep you stuck.

  6. If you’re searching, you’re not ready. When you’re ready, IT is here.

  7. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  8. Those who come to you, just know. Because you know. And they want to dance with that knowing.

  9. It takes so little to play with me. But most are filled with so much.

  10. If you’re not ready to off yourself, I’m of no use to you.

  11. Most can’t ride, let alone fly.

  12. In the land of energetics, it's every hottie for themselves.

  13. How can you command a thing when you can’t command yourself?

  14. Don't aim to help others. Master yourself. This 'helps' them most of all.

  15. Rise through the ranks within yourself.

  16. Your existence is confronting to those who’ve yet to face themselves.

  17. Almost no one wants to go all the way.

  18. It doesn’t matter why someone isn’t ready. Or if they will ever be. If they can’t walk through that door with you, that’s all you need to know.

  19. People see me when they’re ready to see themselves.

  20. You use and teach tools and processes because you don’t trust yourself enough to go rogue.

  21. The only ‘tool’ you actually need is custom-built into each moment.

  22. I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.

  23. I blow shit up endlessly. Because I love you and I love me.

  24. Stripping myself brings the naked ones to me.

  25. The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus

  26. You’re not special. Your story’s not special. You’re a living god like everyone else.

  27. The work is to do the work until nothing remains. Until nothing can move you from you.

  28. Masters exist beyond the tribe.

  29. Their maps can’t take you HOME.

  30. You don’t actually want to be saved. You want to be the Master of yourself and the domain that’s housed by You.

  31. If you’re in a container, you’re being contained.

  32. Mindset work takes you even deeper into the programming (illusion) you’re attempting to free yourself from by doing mindset work.

  33. Holding space holds it in place.

  34. My work is not inclusive. I speak to the bold. The brave. The hungry (for death).

  35. All I want is to destroy you. Strip you bare and leave you for dead.

  36. Self-Mastery is the process of getting kicked out of the nest repeatedly. There’s no settling into it. There’s no once and for all. There’s just this moment and how you choose to meet it.

  37. Masters don’t need to be pushed or kicked. They willingly jump off the cliff.

  38. I’m playing in a new arena because the old one’s much too small.

  39. It’s either me or your shit. Never both. It’s always up to you.

  40. Don’t look to me for how to be. You already know what to do.

  41. Them: “What do you do for a living?” Me: “Float through space.”

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