i had a call with a hottie who made an offer online
a TRUE offer
not an offer to ‘get’
just truth being expressed in a moment
and…
this was an absolute edge for her
because she had ‘exposed’ herself by doing so
and when ‘nothing happened’
(impossible)
when her so-called ‘bold’ offer
(bold only to her because of said edge in that moment)
wasn’t responded to right away by her audience
(silly human thinking it knows the when or the how and thinking that something is ‘wrong’ if things don’t ‘happen’ in a specific way on some arbitrary timeline decided by the very small human mind)
she felt insecure and anxious about her offer
(made in a moment of truth, remember — making it the ultimate success regardless of next)
and she wanted to delete her post
(naturally)
but if she was on a call with me of all people
what she actually wanted was to ride her edge even further
so i told her that the only thing she needs to do is be with her (temporary) internal chaos and do what needs to be done until it’s still inside
because the ‘issue’ isn’t the offer or the ‘lack’ of response from her audience
the opportunity is to be bigger than the internal noise and external appearances
to not move while the mind moves and while nothing seems to be moving
to not act in response to the chatter of an unharnessed mind that has no idea what the fuck is actually going on
to be in charge of what’s happening ‘in here’ regardless of externals
(and the mind is an external)
and…
she was ready
she stayed still
she didn’t delete her offer
and…
she made her biggest sale in business so far
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P.S. If she, once still inside, STILL chose to delete her post, that would have been perfect and true; not reactionary and compensatory. And, if she deleted it at the start because of her anxiety, she would not have ‘lost’ a thing because everything is used to refine even further. She could have posted it again the next day (or even an hour later), with or without a tweak, or right after our call from a more stable place. Get it? It’s never about the thing itself. It’s about what you’re doing inside yourself with whatever is or isn’t happening.