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Others aren’t distracting you. You’re using others to distract yourself.
It’s not my job to wake people up. It’s my job to be, and remain, awake. Regardless of who’s sleeping.
Exhaustion comes from self-abandonment (a lack of integrity) while dealing with other people; not from dealing with other people.
Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.
You're not special. Your story's not special. You're a living god like everyone else.
The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus
“I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.” How to respond when people question your moves.
True 'justice' is reclaiming your power from everything and everyone you gave it to.
The true move does what needs to be done. Across the board. With everyone.
Avoiding 'toxic' people isn't the solution (or even possible). Becoming clean yourself is.
The absurdity of caring what another thinks of you.
If someone cares what you think of them, or what anybody thinks of them, they cannot be honest with you or them.
You create your art. People enter it as they wish. They take what they need. But the creation was for you.
You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.
You have access to all of it. No more and no less than anyone else.
My work is not for everyone. It’s barely for anyone. But for those whom it was made, nothing else will do.
It’s funny to me that people attribute / thank Jesus / God for them getting the things they want. But rarely, if ever, for the things they don’t.
When you take away the artificial buffer(s), there's a high chance that someone's gonna split.
It’s no one’s job to keep you stable. It’s your job to contend with your own instability.
A ‘king of the people’ speaks directly to the codependent hearts of the (m)asses.
If you choose something or someone over yourself, you're gonna have a hard time.
If it affects you, it's for you.
The other isn't the reason that you deviate from YOU. The other is the excuse you use to abandon what is true.
I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.
Resentment is using another to keep yourself bound and then blaming them for why you’re not free.
The need to trust another reflects your inability to trust yourself.
Too many people have tamed their beast. An animal isn’t meant to be caged.
When you stop going to others for answers, you start to access your own.
People see me when they’re ready to see themselves.
Stop making people your God.
Everyone’s a genius. Very few express it. Everyone’s a god. Very few recall.
All couples have problems. All people who look outside of themselves for something / anything have problems.
You don't owe anyone a thing.
Don't aim to help others. Master yourself. This 'helps' them most of all.
He has to die to be with me. As does anyone else.
Money doesn’t come from other people. It comes from you, through other people.
What I want cannot be bought. Nor found within another.
The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.
You can't teach another how to be themselves.
You praise and condemn others for what is most active in you.
You don’t need to ‘humble’ yourself or another. Life will do that for you.
Withholding truth is still untrue. It’s just another form of deceit.
By the time you say to yourself or another, “This is the last time (…)”, you have already bypassed your NO, relinquished your power, and ignored that moment of knowing.
People ‘love’ you more when you suffer. Let that shit sink in.
When someone is free, they appear narcissistic to those still bound by themselves.
Being with someone ugly steals your pretty.
The 'narcissist' and his so-called 'prey' are equally sick and addicted.
The ‘narcissist’ sticks around until you stop blaming another for what you’re doing to yourself.
If you weren't trying to outsource from another what you can only provide for yourself, you would not have ended up in something that hurts you.
Someone 'coming into power' is not a defining line on the timeline any more than a falling leaf is.
Once you hold yourself accountable, you won’t demand that of another.
Everything and everyone is held to account.
"Oh, look! Another way to avoid myself!" Humans
It's not one or the other. The other is part of The One.
The ‘disorder’ dissolves once you do for yourself what you’re trying to do through the other.
‘Personality Disorder’: Seeing self / life / others through a temporarily distorted lens.
You enable another's dysfunction by trying to deal with it at all.
Loyal to truth; not the other.
I won't abandon myself for another. No one is worth that transgression.
It is only through your own delusion of powerlessness that you presume others are also without power.
It is not real love unless and until you have zero need / expectation / desire for the other to be different in any way.
Why would you need to forgive? What happened wasn’t wrong. Nor was it about you.
The concept of forgiveness is just as absurd as one human granting it to another.
You only point at others when you’ve turned against yourself.
Why would you want anything other than what already is?
when you refuse to deviate from yourself / for anything / for anyone / at any time / then… / you live / your life / as a god
Your willingness and capacity to suffer with and for another, is not love (for yourself or for the other).
The human thinks one thing. The being knows another.
It's never about the illusory other.
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