Packaged Limitations
when you look at most coaches and their offers
what they are selling you is their own limitation packaged as freedom
like you are actually paying to learn and build the same kind of box they exist within
the same distorted lens
the same delusion that there is actually a problem that needs fixing and that you are not already all that is
and lo and behold…
they somehow overcame that same illusory problem
and they can teach you how to do the same
so you can live that dream life that they now live
from the comfort of your very own box
without needing to exercise your own power
or requiring them to be in theirs
and lucky for you…
you have found someone who has the answers that you don’t
someone who knows the way to your freedom
(as if)
and can confidently assure you that unless you do X, Y, Z (heal / forgive / reprogram / affirm / release / whatever the fuck)…
you will remain ‘blocked’ (not a thing) from whatever it is that you’re after
something that is somehow ‘out there’ and separate from you
something that is contingent upon you doing a monkey dance to acquire it
and you believe this because you’re desperate to find the thing that will finally set you free
because of course that’s not within your power right now
of course it’s elsewhere
not right here
(absolutely insane)
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Michelle: “OMG, THIS!! I have been contemplating this (in the business coaching realm). Because of the work I do, people often ask me how to choose/find a business coach. The number one thing I tell them is to be mindful of the limitations the coach imposes disguised as the method. E.g if a business coach built their business by working 16 hours per day for the first three years that is the model and limitation they are going to teach. And another just as ‘successful’ business owner built their same business doing the exact opposite. If people don’t learn to see what belief they are buying into they end up completely outsourcing their energy to solve a problem they didn’t have.”
