A while back I was messaging with a hottie who was telling me about her experience with a mentor we both know.
And she mentioned how it didn’t ‘work’.
But like…
only one thing actually works and you can’t get that ‘from’ a mentor or anyone else.
And typically those who pay to work with mentors (at least from what I’ve seen in the space I’ve moved through and out of),
are those who already don’t trust themselves and are looking outside of themselves for answers,
and are hoping that this next mentorship / person / course / whatever the fuck will be that golden ticket that can override the work that only they can do.
But like…
No one can do it for you.
No one’s ‘paradigm’ can save you from yourself if what you truly want is to be free of yourself and of all paradigms.
#theultimatemission
You’re either meeting and facing and working with what’s already inside of you in each moment or you’re not.
There are no tricks or tools or techniques that can help you do that specific thing.
But there are plenty if you want to feel like you’re doing something along the way.
Also, stating the obvious here, no one on this planet is responsible for what you do or don’t do inside of yourself or with your life.
If you were / are leaning on, and looking to, another instead of erecting, and looking inside, yourself,
you’re going to end up disappointed.
(but only until you see through why you felt the need to do that in the first place and then you will see that it was absolutely perfect)
So…
If you are hiring someone to ‘get’ something,
(not the vibe)
that is your first clue that you’re signing up for shit that won’t do shit for you except be an experience that you will look back on to realize that you abandoned yourself and ignored your knowing because you thought someone else knew or had something you didn’t.
You were looking for permission to trust what you already know.
And to do what you already wanted to do.
But you don’t need a mentor for that.
And…
Paying to play with someone for the fun and thrill and pleasure and truth of it…
is another thing entirely.
DO THAT.
And…
it’s not ultimately a problem that you looked, or continue to look, to others for what is already available inside of you.
Because eventually and inevitably,
you won’t do that anymore.
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