Do you understand how insane it is to need / ask / require / expect / teach a fellow adult to meet your so-called ‘emotional needs’ at all, let alone in whatever way you imagine they need to be met?

How silly it is to praise said adult for adjusting their behaviour in order to cater to the parts of you that still feel small / are energetically limp?

The parts you’re asking THEM to maneuver around instead of dealing with them yourself.

How you’re admitting, just by doing this, that you would rather your partner consider you before themselves, and to do a dance around your dysfunction in the ways that have been clearly spelled out.

Instead of wanting them just to dance.

Instead of doing the work yourself.

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