Speed.
Power.
Potency.
Precision.
When we join forces,
I won’t offer tools or processes.
We won’t work on mindset or strategy.
We won’t scour your past for a link to the present.
And you won’t learn how to manage a thing.
Truth requires absolutely no-thing.
It’s time to play a new kind of game.
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I’ll leave myself to meet you there.
You’ll do the same for me.
vs
I’ll stay right here.
You’ll stay right there.
We’ll dance in the in-between.
Or not.
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Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in…
Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”
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Me: “It’s only the mind that assumes that whatever powerful resources you already have in you, will just not work in the future. ‘So what can I do preemptively to make sure I’ll be okay?’ Which is nothing but bullshit. So to ask that question, is to deny your own power.”
Her: “Right.”
Me: “That the magnificence that I already am, just might not be enough… then.”
Her: (laughs) “Right.”
Me: “That something will somehow be bigger than me and I won’t be able to deal with it properly. Or that there’s even a proper way to deal with anything. No. You are just in a moment, being the living truth.”
if you only do the work when you feel like it
when it’s easy
comfortable
convenient
pleasant
when the results are fast and guaranteed
then guess what?
you’re not doing the work
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I don’t care about or strive towards feeling happy.
I’m here to feel ALIVE.
Uncomfortable.
Powerful.
Present.
To immerse myself in whatever I touch.
To exist fully, naturally, joyfully, deeply.
Which includes so much beyond (and also includes) those ephemeral moments of happiness.
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You only try to fill in the (perceived) gaps for another when you forget that they are sovereign, just like you.
And you can only forget another’s sovereignty when you have forgotten your own (cue a false sense of superiority) which is the only reason you’d ever feel the need to over-reach in the first place.
Your discomfort with where another is choosing to be at (yes, choosing — there are no victims and no one needs saving) generates your over-extension in an attempt to relieve yourself of said discomfort which actually has nothing to do with what the other is or isn’t doing / seeing / getting in that moment.
This is what feeds your desire to change / correct what’s being presented to whatever you deem ‘better’ / more ‘evolved’ than what they’re currently choosing for themselves,
which inevitably breeds resistance and stagnation; not clarity and movement, because the energy of your so-called help is tainted aka sourced from a false premise to begin with.
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It is the inability to withstand the intense aliveness of being that drives the impulse to dilute or run from it, just as the inability to withstand it drives the impulse to seek that same jolt of aliveness through superficial means.
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From a recent text chat with my cyber bestie…
Her: “People believe they are the thingy.”
Me: “Yes.”
Her: “Which is the problem with identifying as an addict because it says I am my thingy.”
Me: “Yep.”
Her: “And people with the biggest thingys are often the ones who are most potent.”
Me: “Exactly. They wouldn’t need a thingy so big if they weren’t so powerful.”
Her: “But shame is a whole thing, too. Shame is the core thing. It’s the Daddy Thingy.”
Me: “Yep. And the being doesn’t carry shame at all. It’s just another thingy to fuel all the other thingies.”
Her: “And things need space held for them.”
Me: “Yep.”
Her: “Which eats up space / power.”
Me: “Yep.”
Her: “Hungry thingys.”
Me: “Yep lol”
Her: “Insatiable thingys.”
Me: “Feed all the thingies!”
Her: “lol”
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Her: “I think of my addiction as escapism and I’m curious about your thoughts on that.”
Being energetically intact (operating from our innate power) is our natural state.
And it’s glorious.
So what’s to escape from?
We only feel the need to ‘escape’ when we’re existing unnaturally.
And addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively ‘manage’ the discomfort of that inner deviation.
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There is a purity,
an innocence,
and a very clean desire,
at the heart of every
addiction and compulsion.
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I bring people to the razor’s edge of themselves.
What they choose to do with that after the fact is entirely up to them.
If they can’t withstand their fire,
they’ll retreat to what is known.
But if they’re truly ready to be set ablaze,
they’ll burn until nothing remains.
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It’s not about me doing whatever I want, whenever I want (and it is).
Just blindly and haphazardly doing whatever I feel like, as if my existence is, and my moves are, at the whim of these ever-changing feelings and superficial desires.
No.
It’s about doing what I know needs to be done, based on my own internal commands (the innate brilliance of my being) regardless of how I feel or how it appears, and even when I don’t understand why I’m doing or not doing it.
Which one might assume takes effort since listening and obeying is foreign to most.
But when your true devotion is to the inner whisper that reconfigures itself in each moment, it doesn’t feel like effort.
It’s a given.
There is no other way.
It would take effort (and be impossible) for me to deviate from what’s actually required of me in a moment just to settle for what’s preferred.
And,
I don’t prefer less than what’s required.
So in that sense, yes, I do whatever I want, whenever I want.
Because what I want is to live and move from the core of myself with an exacting level of integrity.
Which can appear inconsistent on the outside because the consistency (and the priority) is within.
It is a thread that never breaks.
And the reason I move as I do.
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Whether you like it or not, you’re getting exactly what you’ve earned.
Energetically.
And…
You can change what you’re ‘getting’ right now.
By doing the work where it counts.
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The idea that there’s a ‘right’ one implies there could ever be a ‘wrong’ one.
But that’s impossible.
Every being you’re dancing with is the ‘right’ one.
The most accurate and divinely prescribed one.
For precisely where you are.
Just like every moment of life.
The current moment / relationship / circumstance / configuration and all that it’s comprised of, contains exactly what’s required of / for you to clear each board as the next board takes its place.
The players may change but this truth remains the same in the customized game created solely by you.
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Him: “I know you’ll never give me reassurance.”
And why would I need to?
What IS speaks for itself.
He spoke of wanting something more solid.
Saying he knows he can’t ask or expect that of me.
And yet…
I’m as solid as can be (energetically).
He can always count on ME.
But his human wanted something concrete.
In the physical world of make-believe.
Where nothing is solid.
Where security can’t be found.
Not in a thing.
Not in another.
Just in the space one cannot claim.
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