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  1. When someone is free, they appear narcissistic to those still bound by themselves.

  2. I love myself. I love being free of myself.

  3. Everything you make matter, becomes your Master. When nothing matters, you’re free.

  4. ​​When you’re attached to form, you suffer. When you’re devoted to truth, you fly.

  5. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  6. Money shows you where you’re not free. As does everything else.

  7. You don’t need instructions on how to be free. When you’re ready to free yourself, you do it.

  8. Resentment is using another to keep yourself bound and then blaming them for why you’re not free.

  9. I’m here to keep flying in the face of what IS. To want nothing different from the moment I’m in.

  10. I was terrified there would be nothing left. But when nothing was left, I was free.

  11. The only reason you haven’t gotten over your ‘past’, is because you’re using it in the present to justify why you’re not free.

  12. When you'd rather have nothing than whatever this is, so begins the free-fall to IT.

  13. If it isn’t freely given, it isn’t yours to take.

  14. fluid; not fixed

  15. What’s to love when you’re free of yourself — except being free of yourself.

  16. Mindset work takes you even deeper into the programming (illusion) you’re attempting to free yourself from by doing mindset work.

  17. Don’t mind me. I’m just free-basing life.

  18. Most can’t ride. Let alone fly.

  19. YOU free-fall. You descend.

  20. In the void, you’re free.

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Read This If You Feel Old (An Essay)

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After finding out my age…

Her: “You look so young.”

Me: “I *am* young.”

And I’m not accelerating the aging process like many of those around me.

Listen.

The universe is ‘old’.

Humans, regardless of their age / lifespan,

are just babies in the big scheme of things.

We are here only for a blip even if we make it far into ‘old age’.

50… 75… 100…

Still fresh.

Still new.

Still in our true prime.

Even as our form shifts over time, like all physical things do.

Still ageless, timeless, eternal and everlasting.

Unless of course you’re not keeping current with yourself.

And you’ve got a fuckton of matter weighing you down.

And you’re buying into the societal bullshit of what it means to age.

And you’ve been neglecting your true work and your body for eons.

Then of course you will feel ‘old’ and you will look much older than you should and you will move far less freely than you’re actually capable of — just like the masses.

And of course you’ll fear aging (like this gal does), and death by proxy, because you haven’t been doing what you’re supposed to be doing as a functioning human:

cleaning up your shit and taking full responsibility for every aspect of your life, including the state of your body and the illusions you have around form.

And more and worse of what you’ve currently got going on (when what you’ve got going on is based on limitation; both perceived and real) would scare anybody.

So if you haven’t prioritized yourself, the deep work, your health and your body yet,

get crackin’.

And start with going carnivore (or at the very least, keto) and The Power of Mobility.

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I was chatting with a hottie at the club who is the same age as me.

And she shared how much she hates / fears getting older,

which was evident regardless of her sharing that.

And she shared about the work she has gotten done (and more that she still wants to do),

which was evident regardless of her sharing that.

And while I’m not opposed at all to people doing exactly what they want to do to, and with, their bodies…

(because I certainly intend to get ‘work’ done in the future — not botox or implants, mind you, because I don’t want that in my body…

and not because I think I ‘need’ it… (I simply want it, and I’ve known for years exactly what I want)

and I will have no problem sharing that process if and when I do it — because you already know I could care less what you or anyone else would think of that)

you can tell the difference between someone getting work done in an attempt to ‘hold on’ to something they perceive is fading — which is fear / illusion / compensation based…

and someone getting work done for the fun of it,

and just because that’s the next true step that reflects the vision of themselves they want to step into.

And if you have the means and the desire to shape your vessel in any way you like, and in a way that feels safe and perfect for you, go for it.

It’s only a body.

And it will (re)turn back to nothing soon enough.

But…

Getting work done won’t quell the noise if the noise is what’s driving you to get it done.

Just like more money won’t solve your money problems.

Because money problems aren’t about money.

And the compensatory drive to change your appearance is not about your looks / your body / the aging process, either.

The noise has nothing to do with those things.

And you need to do the work to see through the bullshit of that so that if and when you do choose to enhance your vessel, it can look and feel natural / completely accurate on you (even if it looks artificial), because it’s a true reflection of you and the vision you want to step into; not an attempt to ‘fix’ what you’ve yet to address internally by ‘fixing’ something externally.

Not the vibe.

And…

If you are someone that judges people who get work done,

then that is the noise you need to contend with and see through.

Because your judgement is not about other people getting work done.

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  1. Q: “How old are you?” A: Ageless, timeless, eternal and everlasting.

  2. You’re supposed to get better with age; not worse.

  3. Never better. Always better.

  4. I am always in my prime.

  5. The glow up is infinite when you keep current with yourself.

  6. If you’re not getting hotter by the day, you’re doing it wrong.

  7. It’s only a body. And it will (re)turn to nothing soon enough.

  8. I’d feel afraid, too, if I wasn’t in charge of myself.

  9. Your story about it is not the truth of IT.

  10. Resisting aging ages you.

  11. The energy of ‘fighting against’ is more disruptive and detrimental to your system than the thing you’re fighting against.

  12. It’s not that you slow down the aging process when you exist naturally. It’s that you accelerate the aging process when you don’t.

  13. I haven’t lost my magic. And that’s how I know I’ve won.

  14. I don’t care how it appears. I know what’s going on.

  15. The greatest cosmic joke is that we take any of this shit seriously.

  16. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  17. Death is nothing more than dropping form and remaining formless.

  18. Everything makes you more. Regardless of what you’ve ‘lost’.

  19. If you only have it because you’re holding on, you don’t have IT. It has you.

  20. anchored and untethered

  21. The truth of now voids the story of then.

  22. Heaven is being exactly who and where you are.

  23. Follow yourself to get to heaven.

  24. Less you. More YOU.

  25. The more you see through, the less interest you have in what you see.

  26. Here, right now, is the only place that's true.

  27. Everything you’re aiming for is just to be here now.

  28. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  29. Getting work done won’t quell the noise if the noise is what’s driving you to get it done.

  30. The compensatory drive to change your appearance is not about your looks / your body / the aging process.

  31. You can tell the difference between someone getting work done in an attempt to ‘hold on’ to something they perceive is fading (which is fear / illusion / compensation based), and someone getting work done for the fun of it, and simply because that’s the next true step that reflects the vision of themselves they want to step into.

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Mandy Bites on More & Less

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  1. The answer is more butter.

  2. Inaction gets you more action.

  3. The less you do, the hotter it is.

  4. You can't access the MORE while saying yes to less.

  5. Less you. More YOU.

  6. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

  7. Death is nothing more than dropping form and remaining formless.

  8. The energy of ‘fighting against’ is more disruptive and detrimental to your system than the thing you’re fighting against.

  9. You lied to yourself before (and more than) they ever lied to you.

  10. The more you see through, the less interest you have in what you see.

  11. The cleaner it gets inside and out, the more one notices - and the less one tolerates - debris of any kind.

  12. Everything makes you more. Regardless of what you’ve ‘lost’.

  13. You have access to all of it. No more and no less than anyone else.

  14. The whole ‘God is outside of you / bigger and more powerful than you’ thing is completely absurd.

  15. That never-ending ‘healing’ journey creates more problems than it solves. Kidding. It solves nothing.

  16. Their unconsciousness makes you more conscious.

  17. The more conscious you are, the less you're turned on by externals.

  18. When you know the game is to become more conscious, you use everything in front of you towards that end.

  19. Let there be nothing. It's the breeding ground for more.

  20. Every descent reaps more gold.

  21. The more that’s removed, the more there is.

  22. I’m not afraid to take up space. The world could use more me.

  23. Why would I be less me for anybody? The more me, the better. For everybody.

  24. Your existence teaches more than any words or teachings will.

  25. The deeper the conditioning, the more potent your power is.

  26. The less I care, the more I love.

  27. What's a little more poison when you're already sick?

  28. The longer you ignore yourself, the more unstable you become.

  29. The more you self-abandon, the more symptomatic you become.

  30. The more you focus on symptoms, the further you stray from truth.

  31. If you care more about what they think than you do about what’s true, you’re in a prison of your own design.

  32. That thing? That person? Not more powerful than you.

  33. If you’re creating a system to counter the system… Need I say more?

  34. Someone 'coming into power' is not a defining line on the timeline any more than a falling leaf is.

  35. People ‘love’ you more when you suffer. Let that shit sink in.

  36. She erects The Beast by not accepting less than his best.

  37. As long as you're settling for a less than true existence, you have yet to earn the 'riches' that you misperceive are missing.

  38. YOU are the spot you keep trying to hit. Nothing less than YOU will do.

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  1. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  2. Heaven is being exactly who and where you are.

  3. Everything you’re aiming for is just to be here now.

  4. i touch heaven / with and through him / and through me / endlessly

  5. I use the Devil to get closer to God. And Hell to get closer to Heaven.

  6. Heaven is here; not there. Heaven is this; not that.

  7. Follow yourself to get to heaven.

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  1. Others aren’t distracting you. You’re using others to distract yourself.

  2. It’s not my job to wake people up. It’s my job to be, and remain, awake. Regardless of who’s sleeping.

  3. Exhaustion comes from self-abandonment (a lack of integrity) while dealing with other people; not from dealing with other people.

  4. Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.

  5. You're not special. Your story's not special. You're a living god like everyone else.

  6. The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus

  7. “I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.” How to respond when people question your moves.

  8. True 'justice' is reclaiming your power from everything and everyone you gave it to.

  9. The true move does what needs to be done. Across the board. With everyone.

  10. Avoiding 'toxic' people isn't the solution (or even possible). Becoming clean yourself is.

  11. The absurdity of caring what another thinks of you.

  12. If someone cares what you think of them, or what anybody thinks of them, they cannot be honest with you or them.

  13. You create your art. People enter it as they wish. They take what they need. But the creation was for you.

  14. You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.

  15. You have access to all of it. No more and no less than anyone else.

  16. My work is not for everyone. It’s barely for anyone. But for those whom it was made, nothing else will do.

  17. It’s funny to me that people attribute / thank Jesus / God for them getting the things they want. But rarely, if ever, for the things they don’t.

  18. When you take away the artificial buffer(s), there's a high chance that someone's gonna split.

  19. It’s no one’s job to keep you stable. It’s your job to contend with your own instability.

  20. A ‘king of the people’ speaks directly to the codependent hearts of the (m)asses.

  21. If you choose something or someone over yourself, you're gonna have a hard time.

  22. If it affects you, it's for you.

  23. The other isn't the reason that you deviate from YOU. The other is the excuse you use to abandon what is true.

  24. I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.

  25. Resentment is using another to keep yourself bound and then blaming them for why you’re not free.

  26. The need to trust another reflects your inability to trust yourself.

  27. Too many people have tamed their beast. An animal isn’t meant to be caged.

  28. When you stop going to others for answers, you start to access your own.

  29. People see me when they’re ready to see themselves.

  30. Stop making people your God.

  31. Everyone’s a genius. Very few express it. Everyone’s a god. Very few recall.

  32. All couples have problems. All people who look outside of themselves for something / anything have problems.

  33. You don't owe anyone a thing.

  34. Don't aim to help others. Master yourself. This 'helps' them most of all.

  35. He has to die to be with me. As does anyone else.

  36. Money doesn’t come from other people. It comes from you, through other people.

  37. What I want cannot be bought. Nor found within another.

  38. The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.

  39. You can't teach another how to be themselves.

  40. You praise and condemn others for what is most active in you.

  41. You don’t need to ‘humble’ yourself or another. Life will do that for you.

  42. Withholding truth is still untrue. It’s just another form of deceit.

  43. By the time you say to yourself or another, “This is the last time (…)”, you have already bypassed your NO, relinquished your power, and ignored that moment of knowing.

  44. People ‘love’ you more when you suffer. Let that shit sink in.

  45. When someone is free, they appear narcissistic to those still bound by themselves.

  46. Being with someone ugly steals your pretty.

  47. The 'narcissist' and his so-called 'prey' are equally sick and addicted.

  48. The ‘narcissist’ sticks around until you stop blaming another for what you’re doing to yourself.

  49. If you weren't trying to outsource from another what you can only provide for yourself, you would not have ended up in something that hurts you.

  50. Someone 'coming into power' is not a defining line on the timeline any more than a falling leaf is.

  51. Once you hold yourself accountable, you won’t demand that of another.

  52. Everything and everyone is held to account.

  53. "Oh, look! Another way to avoid myself!" Humans

  54. It's not one or the other. The other is part of The One.

  55. The ‘disorder’ dissolves once you do for yourself what you’re trying to do through the other.

  56. ‘Personality Disorder’: Seeing self / life / others through a temporarily distorted lens.

  57. You enable another's dysfunction by trying to deal with it at all.

  58. Loyal to truth; not the other.

  59. I won't abandon myself for another. No one is worth that transgression.

  60. It is only through your own delusion of powerlessness that you presume others are also without power.

  61. It is not real love unless and until you have zero need / expectation / desire for the other to be different in any way.

  62. Why would you need to forgive? What happened wasn’t wrong. Nor was it about you.

  63. The concept of forgiveness is just as absurd as one human granting it to another.

  64. You only point at others when you’ve turned against yourself.

  65. Why would you want anything other than what already is?

  66. when you refuse to deviate from yourself / for anything / for anyone / at any time / then… / you live / your life / as a god

  67. Your willingness and capacity to suffer with and for another, is not love (for yourself or for the other).

  68. The human thinks one thing. The being knows another.

  69. It's never about the illusory other.

  70. #erectionsforeveryone

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  1. The whole ‘God is outside of you / bigger and more powerful than you’ thing is completely absurd.

  2. Everything is an exercise in personal power.

  3. They want to FEEL powerful. Not actually BE powerful. Exert power over. Not establish power within.

  4. Fear of the unknown is a lack of trust in your power and ability to navigate what you, yourself, have perfectly orchestrated.

  5. No one has the power to pull you into the lower, let alone keep you there.

  6. If the pain runs deep, the power does, too. Most fear the latter, so they settle on the former.

  7. The world; she owns. By IT; she’s owned.

  8. Regardless of the ‘issue’, it’s about your relationship to power.

  9. True 'justice' is reclaiming your power from everything and everyone you gave it to.

  10. I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.

  11. The powerless surrender to illusion. The powerful submit to truth.

  12. It is only through your own delusion of powerlessness that you presume others are also without power.

  13. The most powerful decisions are made without backup, without proof.

  14. I simply stopped caring. Such a powerful thing.

  15. That thing? That person? Not more powerful than you.

  16. Too many people have tamed their beast. An animal isn’t meant to be caged.

  17. How can you command a thing when you can’t command yourself.

  18. True Dominance and Submission is the energetic tension that can only come from a deeply powerful state. Since most can’t generate, hold, or withstand such a thing, they use force, rules, rituals and tools to (over) compensate.

  19. The alpha wants to lead. The beta wants to be led. The Beast wants neither thing. He leads by being himself.

  20. She has the time. Just not for you. She’s in the mood. Just not for you. She’d do it all. Just not for you. Because your game is weak.

  21. The deeper the conditioning, the more potent your power is.

  22. Just because you’re not applying your power doesn’t mean you don’t possess it.

  23. Addiction is what you choose in lieu of owning and applying your power.

  24. You 'struggle' where you've yet to own and apply your power.

  25. Being in my power activates his.

  26. The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.

  27. They have nothing to do with the power you own or deny.

  28. Your level of pain is equal to your level of resistance. To your genius. To power. To truth.

  29. The edge exists naturally when both are in their power.

  30. By the time you say to yourself or another, “This is the last time (…)”, you have already bypassed your NO, relinquished your power, and ignored that moment of knowing.

  31. Someone 'coming into power' is not a defining line on the timeline any more than a falling leaf is.

  32. The 'issue' is just a stand-in until you own and apply your power.

  33. The ‘narcissist’ shows you precisely where you’ve yet to stand your power.

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  1. Here, right now, is the only place that's true.

  2. Everything you’re aiming for is just to be here now.

  3. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  4. If you are new in every moment (and you are), why are you still like that?

  5. The truth of now voids the story of then.

  6. The work is done now or not at all.

  7. Heaven is being exactly who and where you are.

  8. Don’t honour your word. Honour yourself. The truth in THIS moment. Regardless of what you’ve said.

  9. How do you know you're insane? You want this moment, this situation, this person to be different.

  10. Pure consciousness. That’s what you are. Why would you need time?

  11. Q: “How old are you?” A: Ageless, timeless, eternal and everlasting.

  12. The human needs time. The being exists outside of it.

  13. Taking care of THIS automatically takes care of that.

  14. How could it get better than this when this is all there is?

  15. IT’s here when you are.

  16. When you see through and exist beyond space and time, it’s a pretty fucking epic ride.

  17. New moment? Back at it.

  18. There's nowhere to land.

  19. The only ‘tool’ you actually need is custom-built into each moment.

  20. I’m here to keep flying in the face of what IS. To want nothing different from the moment I’m in.

  21. It doesn’t matter what you learned back then. What do you know now?

  22. Every where is here. Every time is now.

  23. I joined a cult and I’m on drugs now.

  24. when there’s no one / when there’s no thing / when you’re empty / then you’ll see

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