Mentoring
Friend: “I don’t know why things aren’t working.”
Me: “I know exactly why.”
Friend: “I don’t want to hear it.”
Laughter on both ends.
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I had a call with a hottie who was on fire until she started talking about her work.
As she spoke about it, the energy went flat.
I remained silent.
Then she stopped talking.
She asked what just happened.
She felt the shift as well.
It wasn’t what she said about her work.
It was that nothing true was coming through.
Which is why the energy of our very alive conversation died once she started speaking about it.
Moments later, she confessed that the thing she actually wants to write about publicly and express as part of her work and full being-ness, is the exact thing she feels she can’t write publicly about because of A, B, C.
The reasons don’t matter.
The fact that she’s denying herself and betraying her system of what it naturally wants to do more than anything else right now…
and the fact that she’s been withholding that expression for quite some time…
despite already knowing exactly what the first line of that extraordinary introductory piece is going to be and all that it will contain…
for fear of ‘exposing’ the truthiest truth she has ever experienced…
for fear of how others might react to said truth…
for fear of being THAT real…
and owning the full power of that truth and that level of self-expression…
is exactly why her work is flat and nothing within it is moving.
Tears.
Not because she was sad.
But because she knew that her being and her work now requires her to ‘expose’ (her word; not mine) that perfect and beautiful truth she’s been trying to avoid speaking about.
The one thing she always writes and talks around.
Expressing everything but THAT.
That one thing that’s more potent and powerful than all the other things combined.
That one thing that will break open all the rest that lays dormant as she hides behind the words that say everything but THAT.
Dancing around the fire of truth for fear of getting burned.
And now, a new choice.
If she so dares.
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Even if they never talk about it publicly or directly, there is not one (great) coach / mentor / human who doesn’t regularly come up against their ‘shit’ aka their perfectly-customized conditioning and does what it takes to see through it.
Where do you think all of that brilliance and wisdom comes from in the first place?
It comes from the same shit that everyone else faces.
They’re speaking directly (albeit seemingly indirectly through their posts) from having lived through exactly what’s being spoken about.
And the only difference between them (if they’re truly walking their talk) and everyone else (the majority of people who’d rather avoid actively looking at said shit), is that they genuinely want to play this game of facing and seeing through each illusion, instead of allowing that mirage to lead their life.
Which is why they do whatever it takes to become a master of themselves instead of a slave to their illusions, because for these kinds of people, there is no other option.
They’re here for the depth and breadth of living from the core of who they are, and built into that beautifully uncompromising desire, is the requirement to face and learn how to play with all that arises; regardless of how it appears or what must be sacrificed, in order to keep playing the game at a level befitting of these rare birds, who are wholly unable to settle for anything less.
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A beautifully raw reckoning.
A potent life recalibration.
A pivotal unleashing of one’s innate power.
This is what happens through a call with me.
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No matter how high-quality or high-end the container is or appears to be, its very structure prevents you from accessing your own knowing.
And guaranfuckingteed the container holder hasn’t fully accessed theirs either (or they’d be done with containers themselves), so how on earth can they take you to where they haven’t dared to go themselves?
It’s impossible.
They don’t even speak that language.
The language you speak but have yet to have spoken to you.
You’ll never access the full depths of yourself while being coddled away from who that is.
There’s another way.
An easier way.
And it’s a helluva lot more fun.
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It’s amusing to me now to think of who and what I used to go to for answers.
Plenty of people.
Plenty of books.
Plenty of tools that left me out of my own equation.
People and things who couldn’t possibly take me to where I actually needed to go (to the edge and depths of myself), yet their inevitable inability to do so was perfect.
Because I eventually got tired of outsourcing.
And became adept at sourcing from within.
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You don’t actually want to be saved.
You want to be the Master of yourself
and the domain that’s housed by YOU.
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remaining energetically intact
(being in full integrity with yourself)
is the most loving
helpful
and beneficial thing
you can ever do
for the world
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The only thing ‘lacking’
in anyone I’m on a call with,
is their willingness to trust and act on their own knowing.
They KNOW.
They know they KNOW.
But they question and ignore what they KNOW.
That’s the only glitch.
The game changer and the only required ‘shift’ then,
is trusting and then moving,
or not moving,
based on what they KNOW.
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When a friend of mine found out what I charge for a call:
Him: “Now that’s charging what you’re worth.”
Me: “No. I charge what turns me on.”
Which can change at any time.
Higher.
Lower.
Free.
Irrelevant.
I don’t associate money to (perceived) worth or value (two illusory constructs).
I play with the tension of it.
I work my way up or down with the price and the details of a specific offer until I feel a tad nervous or even nauseous about it.
Like I’m about to jump off a cliff (because energetically I am), which is just how I like it.
If the number makes me feel like, “Holy fuck. I couldn’t possibly charge THAT for XYZ.”
…then THAT is the fucking number.
No question about it.
Because it requires me to cross the same energetic threshold that my client will need to cross in order to pay it.
A turn on for us both.
When I ride my own edge, a client will need to ride theirs as well if they want to play with me on said edge.
You see?
It’s never about the number.
And it’s not about charging the most (unless that’s the truth).
It’s about selecting the sharpest point of truth and turn on, which could change from one moment, one day, one offer or one client to the next.
So I’m not attached to the number.
The moment a number feels energetically limp, I’m playing with a new one.
The new true one.
Until the next true one.
So fun.
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when it comes to co-creative energetic magic making
if someone claims they need the ‘results’
the numbers
the past or future whatever
to be quantified before choosing
to work and play with you
they aren’t close to being ready
to work and play with you
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It’s not that the paradigms, tools, processes and various healing modalities don’t work.
They absolutely do.
For many people.
Just not all people.
For one leg of the journey, but not the next.
Some have tried it all, dabbled in various mystical playgrounds on their ‘search’ for what and who they already are, and these things still never hit the right spot.
Or if they did, it wasn’t for long.
So naturally, being the seekers of truth and freedom that they are, they continued their search and began exploring what lies beyond the edge of what they once believed was IT.
Most don’t have a pull to do such a thing.
They’ve already found what works great for them.
So that’s exactly what they use and teach.
And some, with incredible results.
But for those who’ve yet to come across their version of IT, it’s a painful realization that the thing they thought was IT, wasn’t actually IT for them…
and that even though IT works amazing for many of the people around them who have already found and landed on that thing that could potentially serve them and their clients for the rest of their lives…
there is infinitely more to be tasted,
for the ones who have yet to hit IT.
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Much of the time it’s me initiating with those I want to work / play with because I just KNOW.
Immediately.
THIS.
RIGHT NOW.
Regardless of what does or doesn’t happen.
If there’s a pull, I act.
If there isn’t, I don’t.
And when others reach out, it’s the same.
I just KNOW.
Immediately.
THIS.
RIGHT NOW.
Or not.
At all.
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Today in the inbox of a hottie who’s clearly been feeling my posts and is ready to fucking POP:
Me: “I know YOU are ready. So what are you waiting for?”
Her: “I’m so fucking ready. All of a sudden as if overnight, everything has shifted and I am here.”
Bingo.
I called it.
Because I felt it.
So I made the move.
She then goes on to tell me about all the magic that transpired for her yesterday and last night — including a delicious chunk of money from someone who wanted to express appreciation for work she had done for him years ago.
Me: “HOT. Perfect. Of course. Are you ready to book our call?”
Her: “Yes. Let’s do this.”
Done.
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being in your power
in full integrity
in the truth of who you are
naturally activates
and provides a portal for
those who are ready to do the same
so…
you needn’t
(and mustn’t)
move an inch
nor a millimetre
from the depth
and core
of you
to be the perfectly-timed catalyst
the inevitable co-creator
for the ones who dare to free-fall
into the truth they’ve always known
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if you want to dance in darkness
and be stripped of all you’re not
let’s set fire to the illusions
as we freefall
right back home
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Dissatisfaction comes from not playing your game at the level you’re here to play with the people you’re here to play with.
It’s your cue that you’re hanging out on a grid that can’t possibly hit your spot.
Because it’s not meant to.
Shrinking and denying who you are and refusing to go where you’re being led should feel uncomfortable and squishy as fuck because it’s not the natural order and it’s not befitting of you.
You are meant to feel the frustration and restriction of choosing something that’s not even close to what you’re capable of enjoying and creating right now.
So jump.
And keep jumping.
No need to stay stuck in the mud.
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My work has nothing to do with trust.
There is no ‘building’ it, ‘maintaining’ it, or ‘breaking’ it.
It’s all (and only) about the energy.
When it’s pure, we play.
When it’s not, we don’t.
It’s not, and will never be, about trust.
That’s what people who deny their power need to believe is necessary for them to step fully into truth.
But you don’t need to trust another.
You need to trust yourself.
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Self-Mastery is the process of getting kicked out of the nest repeatedly.
There is no settling into it.
There is no once and for all.
There is only this moment
and how you choose to meet it.
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