Makin Moves
There is no last piece.
No final frontier.
No specific area(s) you need to ‘work out’ once and for all and then you’ll be good to go for the rest of your life.
The game has no end.
You’ll never be done.
And the work remains the same.
You’re just playing with matter and its inevitable dissolution.
Regardless of the content or density.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Browse The Archives
When there is a big, fat NO in my system that I didn’t catch right away,
I feel sick in my throat.
It feels like dread.
It feels heavy and icky in my gut.
Things start to feel serious, tight, restricted.
And that dense feeling eclipses everything else until I figure out where the NO must be applied and how.
It doesn’t matter that I missed / ignored it the first time or how long I kept missing / ignoring my NO.
It doesn’t even matter who or what or why.
There’s a NO in my brilliant system and to keep saying YES to it would be a lie.
And that sick feeling is proof that I missed / ignored it and kept missing / ignoring it or else it couldn’t have gotten to the point of full-blown dread.
Who cares.
New moment.
New move.
Let’s rock.
Similarly and conversely…
When there is an edge in my system, I also feel sick.
Nauseous.
Hella nervous.
Like I’m at the top of a rollercoaster about to go down.
But there is no heaviness.
No dread.
No lump in my throat at all.
Nothing feels icky.
It feels exhilarating.
Fascinating.
Fun and light and limitless.
It feels yummy and also terrifying.
It’s not knowing what the fuck is gonna happen but being so willing to take this wild ride just because it’s true, and to let my fear stop me would be a lie.
And so…
A true NO is telling me to stop.
A true edge is telling me to GO.
That’s how I know the difference.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Browse The Archives
You don’t get ALL THE THINGS just because you’re ‘doing the work’.
You get ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE TRUE FOR YOUR BEING EVERY FUCKING STEP OF THE WAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR FUCKING LIFE regardless of the work.
Which is what you’ve been getting since the moment you were born.
So doing the work doesn’t change the fact that you’re always exactly where you need to be in whatever circumstance you find yourself in that’s undoubtedly refining you beautifully.
Doing the work just ‘removes’ the illusory shit in the way of you seeing how fucking perfect it all is regardless of how it appears or what does or doesn’t happen because let’s face it, shit is always happening.
That’s life.
What is or isn’t happening is never the problem.
How we misperceive it, is.
Someone in a relationship isn’t more advanced / on track than someone not in one, and vice versa.
Someone with a fuckton of cash isn’t more advanced / on track than someone with nada, and vice versa.
Someone with a specific health condition isn’t less advanced / less on track than someone without one, and vice versa.
You can’t use external metrics to measure the quality of one’s inner experience or the precision of one’s energetic game because the work has nothing to do with the external even though, of course, it can impact it.
Things most definitely move more seamlessly when you’re actively doing the work simply because you’re not repeatedly jamming your own circuits with your own bullshit / clutter / mispercepetions / expectations.
And if you’re attached to what your ‘been doing all the work’ life should look like (the man, the fat account, 20 pounds lighter, whatever the fuck), you’re still not hitting the right spot because you’re aiming for something ‘out there’ to validate what you’re doing ‘in here’ instead of staying right here where the magic really happens (which has nothing to do with what does or doesn’t happen externally).
Doing the work (seeing through the matter) results in being okay no matter what happens and no matter what it ends up looking like, and trusting (well it’s even beyond trust — you just KNOW) that your being knows far better than you what the hottest concoction is for you every step of the way if you’d just get outta the damn way and do exactly what you know you need to do because you’re being told how to move in every fucking moment.
And it’s not that you won’t ‘get’ the cash or the man or the body whatever else it is you think you want.
It’s that you inevitably get to a place where you’re so fucking juiced even without it, that you’re not even feeling like a damn thing is missing (because nothing ever is), and you know that what’s truly for you is both inevitable and ever-present, and you know it’s the experience you’re after; not the thing itself,
as the unimaginable licks you from head to toe
in ways you never even dreamed of.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Purchase You Don’t Need This Money Book
Browse The Archives
making your move
based on / for / because of another
based on / for / because of the external
based on / because of what you imagine may or may not happen in the illusory future you’ll never actually meet because it will always and forever be NOW
is not the vibe
you need to make every single move
and every non-move, too (same thing)
from and for you
just because it’s true
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Makin' Moves
Browse The Archives
when someone writes something ‘off’ on a post
or says something ‘off’ on a call
(‘off’ meaning energetically inaccurate)
i use that glitch in a piece of my own
to address and ‘correct’ what was ‘off’
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Art
Browse The Archives
It’s not: ‘Of course they make a lot of money. Look how much they charge.’
If it was as simple as that, then why don’t you try to charge what they charge and see what happens.
Spoiler Alert:
Nothing beautiful will happen.
Because your move wasn’t true.
It was tainted with something artificial to prove.
There are people charging at every single price point for all kinds of things.
Some are making a killing.
Some are not.
And it’s not the price that determines that.
A high price doesn’t guarantee it will be sold.
Nor does a low one.
You already know this.
So it’s not about the price itself.
It’s about what’s actually true.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Purchase You Don’t Need This Money Book
Explore the Mandy Bites Collection
Browse The Archives
It’s like people come to me with all these crutches and I just keep doing swift kicks to every fucking one of them.
And then they’re like, “WHOA. I never knew I could walk without those.”
And I’m like, “Bitch, I know. And you’re welcome.”
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Browse The Archives
How energetically sharp / clean / tight can you get?
Before you say anything.
Before you do anything.
When you say anything.
When you do anything.
How pure are you willing to be?
Is the true move to actually open that message?
To respond right now?
To write exactly what you wrote?
Did you even MEAN that?
Or were there add-ons?
Embellishments.
Half truths or whole lies.
Is the true move to answer the phone just because it’s ringing?
Or is it to call that person back?
Or to stop talking to them altogether?
Is the true move to spend your money on that particular thing?
For that amount exactly?
Or to not spend a dime.
And save every dollar you get.
Is the true move to take a nap?
To sleep in?
To stay up?
To go a whole week barely catching a wink?
Each of these things are oh-so little,
but they make up your entire life.
And the way you play with each little thing,
is how you conduct EVERY thing.
So how true are your moves?
How YOU are you?
And how much truth are you leaving on the metaphorical table because you automatically default to false?
If there’s any, it’s time to clean up.
As the fucking boss that you inherently are,
you gotta use whatever and whoever is in front of you right now,
to make your truest move and live your truest life.
You don’t have to wait for anything or anyone,
or for something BIG to happen,
in order to move like a beast.
No happening is ever too small.
And every single happening is what you must use,
to keep paving your way to YOU.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Makin' Moves
Browse The Archives
My hands shook when I sent her the number for our call ($25,000).
An unexpected but completely accurate number for her and I.
A number I didn’t think my way to.
I just knew in a moment.
It’s this or nothing.
Anything less (or more) — a lie.
A lie that would soften the edge of ME.
And I’d rather die than do such a thing.
She could take it or leave it.
That wasn’t the point.
Nor was the amount I chose.
I’m here to ride my edge all the fucking way,
and see how far I go.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Purchase You Don’t Need This Money Book
Explore the Mandy Bites Collection
Browse The Archives
I made thousands in one week letting others pick the price themselves for a 30-minute call with me.
Thousands.
That didn’t happen because of my ‘price point’.
There wasn’t one.
Still ‘worked’.
Because nothing was in the way.
I was just playing because it was fun.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Purchase You Don’t Need This Money Book
Explore the Mandy Bites Collection
Browse The Archives
It’s never about the words themselves.
It’s about the energy sourcing them.
Which is why someone can speak or write the most beautiful piece,
but you still can’t feel a thing.
It’s flat.
It’s dead.
From the mind.
Not from being.
From a concept.
Not from truth.
It’s overcompensating with words,
for what has yet to be touched.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Browse The Archives
Focusing on a BIG, seemingly ‘unachievable’ dream that happens somewhere ‘out there’ at another time that is definitely not now,
is the perfect way to cock-block yourself from making any moves at all.
That’s why you made it so BIG.
To make sure that you wouldn’t move.
And you blame the BIGness of the thing for the moves you aren’t making…
but you’ve created and are using the BIG thing to keep you from going too far.
And of course you can have BIG dreams (which are often just visions of you unobstructed),
but there’s a difference between knowing what you’re here for and making your moves from that knowing…
and experiencing that pulsating desire and then doing all that you can to put something,
anything,
between you and the very thing you’re most afraid to own.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Makin' Moves
Browse The Archives
Regardless of the move, you can feel if it’s distorted or clean.
The matter is felt.
The lack of it as well.
If you’re not doing a particular thing, and that non-doing comes from avoidance, resistance, resentment, holding back truth, or any other energetically contracted state, it’s palpable.
Heavy.
Dense.
Gross in your system.
If you’re not doing a particular thing just because it’s true not to do it, with nothing attached to that non-doing at all, it’s clean.
Beautiful.
An elixir for your being.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Makin' Moves
Browse The Archives
In the land of energetics,
it’s every hottie for themselves.
You can’t leave your post for anything.
For anyone.
Not even for a moment.
And that, in a nutshell,
is the deepest work,
the highest calling,
the purest love there is.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Browse The Archives
When you let a situation ‘bleed out’ (come to its natural and inevitable conclusion), you choose not to touch it because it doesn’t require an intervention.
It’s not avoidance.
It’s knowing through discernment.
It’s staying where it’s true.
Not remaining where it’s flat.
And…
It’s not true that you need ‘closure’.
To wrap things up.
To contrive an end point,
just so you can say it’s done.
It’s done the moment it flatlines.
Anything beyond that is just more of that.
So no need to state the obvious.
Or bring it back to life.
Just stay where it’s most alive,
as everything dead falls away.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Death
Browse The Archives
Once you know how to play with the very sharpest of edges of yourself,
you get to play with the space beyond any edge.
A new / non dance.
With new / non moves.
Piercing the cosmos you hold in your hands.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on Makin' Moves
Browse The Archives
Lack of money isn’t the reason you aren’t living your fullest and truest life.
You are the reason you aren’t living your fullest and truest life.
And lack of money is a by-product of that self-denial.
And…
It’s not about the money.
You can have nothing in your account and still make your truest move right now.
But you use lack of money as your excuse not to do that.
It’s an easy ‘out’ from riding the edge of life and of yourself.
The perfect excuse to keep saying NO to you.
And how freaking handy to blame your self-created, restricted inner experience on that clearly-more-powerful-than-you money.
That completely-outside-of-you money.
But here’s what’s true:
That ‘restriction’ you experience financially is simply the energetic restriction you’re living in constantly, projected onto, and out-pictured through, money.
Your system is jammed.
And so are your finances.
Because money doesn’t move before you do.
It’s already here.
Where are you?
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Purchase You Don’t Need This Money Book
Browse The Archives
You don’t actively create your magic.
You get out of the way and the magic happens through you.
Like clockwork.
And as you purify your lens,
you experience more magic than ever before.
Layers on layers on layers of YUM.
But you’re not creating something new.
You’re unveiling what always was.
Just like a sculptor chipping away to reveal the piece they know is there,
you’re dissolving whatever imagined blocks you thought existed between you and all that YOU are.
And of course each unveiling feels newer.
Lighter.
Higher.
Truer.
Since you’ve unearthed even more through your perpetual excavations.
But it also feels like home.
Like it’s nothing new at all.
Because you’ve never not been home.
Home is what YOU are.
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on The Zero Point
Browse The Archives
if someone has travelled three layers deep
and you have travelled three trillion on route to a bazillion
you’re swimming in a vastness they’ve yet to taste
but can sense
in you
and in themselves
this will terrify and / or intrigue them
or feel so far from where they are that they insist it doesn’t exist
(because they don’t yet have the eyes to see what’s invisible to the eye)
they’d rather stick to what is seen and known
(like most do)
and so…
at three layers deep
with three trillion more layers beneath
and a bazillion more layers to go
they’re content with those three layers
believing that what they see is all there is
so for them, nothing feels like it’s missing
even though much has yet to be explored
they simply aren’t yet pulled to touch
the underworld of themselves
and who can blame them, really?
those depths aren’t for the masses
they’re for those
who can’t survive
let alone thrive
unless / until they freefall
into the darkness
into the abyss
into the stillness
where nothing exists
and when one comes across another
three trillion layers deep
there’s a mutual
and oh so beautiful
recognition of what it took
to arrive at those depths
where most won’t dare to swim
△
Schedule The Elite Retweak or Leave A Tip
Peep Mandy Bites on The Zero Point
Browse The Archives