You wouldn’t need to draw a line in the sand with words if the line was energetically there to begin with.
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Words Won't Do It (Mandy Bite)
Words can’t override the truth of where you are (or aren’t) and make what’s not true, true.
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Standardized Human (An Essay)
Standards, boundaries and thresholds are what you create / enforce / adhere to / require when your energy doesn’t speak for itself, when you don’t actually trust yourself, and your choices aren’t sourced from the truth of each moment.
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All-Inclusive PSA (Mandy Bite)
Erections For Everyone (An Essay)
Someone told me my energy is ‘too big’ and that’s why they ‘shrink’ (go energetically limp) when I’m around.
Guess they’ll have to figure that out.
#erectionsforeveryone
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You're Fired (Mandy Bite)
When your energy is intact, you don’t need to manage who or what’s around you.
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Your Verbal Line In The Sand (An Essay)
“You verbally express it because you can’t energetically hold it.”
Andrea: “Is this always the case?”
No.
If they’re energetically backed, you can feel the power through the words. But it’s not the words themselves doing the speaking.
It’s the energy.
The words are chosen but are not necessary to deliver the message which is already felt and known with or without the words.
What I’m pointing to in this bite is the use of words (like setting boundaries, for example) with no energetic backing - the reason you’re relying on words to deliver the message in the first place; a message that won’t come through because your energy is saying something else entirely.
Words can’t override the truth of where you are (or aren’t) and make what’s not true, true.
Using words in an attempt to achieve what you’ve yet to earn (and wouldn't need to name had you earned and achieved it already), demonstrates that split.
You wouldn’t need to draw a line in the sand with words if the line was energetically there to begin with.
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Cosmic Shenanigans (Mandy Bite)
The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.
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Tricky (Mandy Bite)
in Energetics, Mandy Bites, Addiction, Pain, Linked
The addiction itself is not the issue.
What’s sourcing the pattern of addiction, IS.
And even that is not an issue.
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Timeless (Visual Diary)
in Energetics, Mandy Bites, Death, Visual Diary, Linked
“Death is nothing more than dropping form and remaining formless.”
This is my mom’s set that I came across today while puttering.
When she passed, instead of replacing the battery, I asked the jeweller to remove the hands.
This keepsake is typically with her other things, but today they feel lovely on my wrist.
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Solid (Mandy Bite)
Freshen It Up Or Burn It Down (An Essay)
in Energetics, The NO, Makin Moves, Essays, Linked
There are times when a NO within an experience is enough to keep it fresh and intact energetically.
And times when a NO must be applied to it directly, in order to maintain that same level of integrity.
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Stay Pukey (An Essay)
in Energetics, The NO, Makin Moves, Essays, Linked
Wanna throw up?
Good.
It means you’re riding your edge or you’ve bypassed your NO.
Both of which bring you closer to HOME.
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Falling (Mandy Bite)
in Energetics, Mandy Bites, Zero Point, Death, Linked
Stay where it's most alive,
as everything dead falls away.
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The Pattern Of Addiction (An Essay)
in Addiction, Energetics, Makin Moves, Essays, Linked
Addiction is an energetic pattern.
It’s not about the form / substance / person.
They’re interchangeable.
And until you succeed in shifting what actually needs shifting (which goes beyond just stopping something in the physical), you’ll naturally and inevitably replace one addiction with another.
You’ll unknowingly redirect that same addictive and still very active pattern to another spot (and likely return to the original spot), unaware that the pattern itself bleeds across the board until it actually gets cleaned up.
Even if you do manage to stop A, B or C in the physical, either temporarily or for good (which you take as proof that something has changed - that you have changed),
unless you also make the energetic shift required to dissolve the pattern altogether, nothing has truly changed at all.
You just ‘quit’ that one thing, only to continue the same pattern with this or the next thing, thereby proving that the specific addiction was never the actual issue.
What’s sourcing the pattern of addiction, IS.
And until that’s ‘resolved’ (seen through and turned back into nothing), it’s gonna keep shape shifting and fucking you up.
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Far From Home (Mandy Bite)
We only feel the need to ‘escape’ when we’re existing unnaturally.
Addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively ‘manage’ the discomfort of that inner deviation.
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Escaping Through Addiction (An Essay)
in Energetics, Addiction, Essays, Convos, Linked
“I think of my addiction as escapism and I’m curious about your thoughts on that.”
Being energetically intact (operating from our innate power) is our natural state.
And it’s glorious.
So what’s to escape from?
We only feel the need to ‘escape’ when we’re existing unnaturally.
And addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively ‘manage’ the discomfort of that inner deviation.
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The Language That Speaks (An Essay)
Numbers aren’t the indicator.
Followers aren’t the indicator.
Engagement isn’t the indicator.
Energy is the language that speaks.
There are plenty of people saying plenty of things while their energy outs them every time.
And there are plenty of people making and paying plenty of dollars for those words (and other energetically limp creations) because they cannot yet sense the truth (energy).
Your energy is felt and known whether you speak or remain silent.
It is felt and known regardless of what you say or what you avoid saying.
Energy can’t be hidden.
And words can’t hide what IS.
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Catching Feelings (An Essay)
Her: “But what if their moves affect me?”
Me: “Then you’re allowing yourself to be affected.”
Another’s moves aren’t the reason you feel the way you do.
That would imply that the external is more powerful than you are (it’s not),
and that you didn’t generate this exact feeling and circumstance yourself (you did).
The other’s moves are just what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.
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No Reassurance (An Essay)
Him: “I know you’ll never give me reassurance.”
And why would I ever need to?
What IS speaks for itself.
He spoke of wanting something more solid.
Saying he knows he can’t ask or expect that of me.
And yet…
I’m as solid as can be (energetically).
He can always count on ME.
But his human wanted something concrete.
In the physical world of make-believe.
Where nothing is solid.
Where security can’t be found.
Not in a thing.
Not in another.
Just in the space one cannot claim.
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