The external issue is never the actual issue.
It just points to,
and is an extension of,
the dysfunctional relationship
you have with yourself.
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Now vs Later (An Essay)
You can either do the work here and now with this one,
or do the exact same work ‘later’ (still now)
with the ‘next’ and very same one.
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This Always Works (An Essay)
When it is a natural extension and expression of truth,
it works.
Always.
When it’s not,
it doesn’t.
Even if it seems to for a while.
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The Edge Doesn't Exist (An Essay)
The edge doesn’t have to BE huge to FEEL huge.
And…
the edge doesn’t ultimately exist.
But you still have to ride it
until you finally see through it.
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The Cryptic Drift (An Essay)
You don’t need it.
(my money book)
And you don’t need more money.
(even when you do)
And…
Need is why you don’t get it.
And…
Need is why you don’t ‘get’ IT.
If you catch my cryptic drift.
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When Time No Longer Exists (An Essay)
That internal split in your perception of consciousness,
is what creates the illusion of time.
When consciousness is unified,
meaning you are free of illusion and perceived separation,
time no longer exists.
You’re in the realm of the eternal.
Where everything already is.
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Which Is It? (An Essay)
Which is it?
Are you powerful and taking full responsibility for yourself and every aspect of your life…
or are you playing the victim?
It can’t be both.
And victimhood doesn’t become you.
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You Were Right (An Essay)
Her: “You were right. It wasn’t about me.”
It never, ever, ever, is.
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Do It For The Thrill (An Essay)
Her: “When is a good time to have a call?”
Me: “When it feels thrilling and unnecessary.”
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Nothing Is Wrong (An Essay)
Nothing is intrinsically ‘wrong’.
Never has been.
Never will be.
Not with you.
Not with life.
Not with the moment.
Not with the other.
THAT is the starting point.
And…
that acceptance of what is as it is right now,
without a skewed lens applied to it,
doesn’t mean you condone a thing.
And it doesn’t mean you passively participate in life because ‘it is what it is’, either.
It just means you see clearly and you move accordingly without the internal resistance to what is.
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The Past As A Scapegoat (An Essay)
The only reason why you haven’t ‘gotten over’ your ‘past’ is because you’re using it in the present to justify why you’re not free.
It serves your perceived limitation(s) perfectly.
I can’t be / do / have THIS thing right now because of that thing that doesn’t actually exist.
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People Choose When To Die (An Essay)
Every being chooses when it enters and leaves this world.
As well as what it enters into.
It’s the human that can’t see beyond the illusion of form and time, thus believing something should or could have been different, and / or something actually went wrong.
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How Wars Begin (An Essay)
The ‘state of the world’ is an accurate and perfect out-picturing of the individual’s war within.
So to be surprised by anything going on ‘out there’, especially when you’ve yet to contend with what’s going on ‘in here’, is kind of silly.
How could you expect or want peace in the world if you can’t even generate it inside yourself?
It starts and ends with you, boo.
It starts and ends with me, too.
But also,
there is no start and there is no end.
There is only what IS for infinity.
And if you are fighting the is-ness of life,
of yourself,
or even another,
then…
you understand implicitly
exactly how wars begin.
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Don't Get Tricked By The Flashing Lights (An Essay)
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“We’ve only just begun.”
“Now more than ever…”
“In these challenging times…”
No.
The same shit has been going on, and will continue to go on, for eons.
There is nothing new or groundbreaking or ‘worse than before’ happening.
Except to you / your mind / that mission-based and externals-believing self.
The ‘new’ that you perceive is your own increased awareness.
The lens getting clearer.
You’re seeing through more and more and it feels revolutionary,
(and you position it as such)
but it’s not.
It just is.
And it was before you,
and it will be after you.
The truth has been here this whole time.
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There's Nothing New Happening (An Essay)
The ‘new’ that you perceive is your own increased awareness.
The lens getting clearer.
You’re seeing through more and it feels revolutionary,
but it’s not.
It just is.
And it was before you,
and it will be after you.
The truth has been here this whole time.
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Who Should Be Accountable? (An Essay)
“They need to be held accountable.”
Actually, they don’t.
That’s what you think you need.
To make things ‘right’.
To finally be free.
But once you hold yourself accountable,
you won’t demand that of another.
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The Narcissistic Initiation (An Essay)
the ‘narcissist’ is the initiation
the catalyst into more
the ultimate invitation
the one to point you home
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Don't Blame The Narc (An Essay)
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To blame the ‘narcissist’ for ‘manipulating’ you into ignoring that initial gut feeling and your brilliant inner knowing is completely absurd.
Own your choice to ignore yourself to gain something else from them.
This isn’t ‘victim-blaming’.
It’s adult responsibility-taking.
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When The Delulu Disappears (An Essay)
when the delulu disappears
and the trauma goggles drop
when you see through all the lies
that weren’t enough to make you stop
when the hope has finally died
because you see it for what it is
the attachment swiftly breaks
and you return to innocence
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Leaving Yourself For Them (An Essay)
Exhaustion comes from self-abandonment
(a lack of integrity)
while dealing with other people;
not from dealing with other people.
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