Long
being in your power
in full integrity
in the truth of who you are
naturally activates
and provides a portal for
those who are ready to do the same
so…
you needn’t
(and mustn’t)
move an inch
nor a millimetre
from the depth
and core
of you
to be the perfectly-timed catalyst
the inevitable co-creator
for the ones who dare to free-fall
into the truth they’ve always known
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If neither of you are in your power, it’s not pure, clean love because it’s based on illusion / need / dependency / standards / etc (aka distortions), and not on the truth of each moment / movement, which can only be discerned and honoured from said place of power.
It’s a poor facsimile that doesn’t even come close to the level of intimacy experienced by two people who are truly living in integrity and are thereby (distortion/clutter) free to choose truth in every moment, regardless of the other.
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You can’t ignore, soften, repress or shrink who you are and live an exceptional life.
You can’t shape shift for the world each day and then wonder why you’re depressed, anxious, suicidal, bored or angry.
THAT'S WHY YOU EXPERIENCE THOSE THINGS.
That's your incredibly brilliant system telling you VERY FUCKING CLEARLY that what you think you need to do and who you think you need to be to exist in the world (and with others), is not the answer.
The answer is so fucking simple.
Be YOU. Full out.
Which is the hardest thing
(even if it’s the most natural thing)
for most people to do.
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you know how a fuck ton of clutter and chaos in your home can just ruin your vibe
how all that excess weighs you down
how all that old shit you’ve been hanging onto and avoiding for days / weeks / months / even years
feels insurmountable
limits your ability to truly enjoy your space and the treasures within it
limits your ability to actually see its true beauty
limits your ability to move freely
limits your ability to BE HERE NOW
because everywhere you turn, shit’s a hot, overwhelming mess
and all that shit takes up a majority of your attention
clouds your vision
and makes it even harder to do what you actually want to do because ALL THAT SHIT IS IN THE WAY
well…
it’s the same with inner clutter and chaos
except an inner mess can be cleaned up in an instant
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a visual of what life does to you
when
you
STOP
trying
holding
planning
controlling
needing
wishing
hoping
praying
visualizing
and
resisting
what
is
already
here
for
you
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another person’s attempt to change you
their desire for you to be less self-expressed
less potent
less YOU
is nothing more than an indication
that they deeply crave to be just as self-expressed
(whatever that looks like for them)
but instead of choosing that for themselves
(which they can do at any time)
they try to diminish it in you
(like they’ve been doing to themselves)
to cope with the pain of that perpetual self-denial
that excruciating and ever-present pain
of rejecting
and denying
the fullness of who they are
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You can feel when you leave yourself for another.
And when they leave themself for you.
The tainted stretch of self-abandonment is palpable.
It feels sticky and icky and gross and not right.
If the energy was a visual, you’d see how unnatural and misshapen it looks.
How unattractive it is.
And how messy and distorted things become when one chooses not to remain in their power.
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Giving someone an ultimatum (an attempt to control, and get your (perceived) needs met through, another) is a misperception that something external to you must change before you can feel a particular way, or do a particular thing, instead of owning your own power and operating / choosing / speaking from there.
This counterfeit method of getting what you think you want will not get you what you actually want (not even close… or even possible from that place), even if the other person chooses to put you before themselves and surrenders to this energetic manipulation.
What you seek and are reaching for is inside of you.
It has nothing to do with another.
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doing something
anything
for or with a person
because you feel guilty or pressured
because you feel bad / sorry / pity for them
because you think they need saving
because you believe it’s your job to ‘help’ them
because you can’t withstand their pain
because ‘it’s just what you do when…’
is not pure
it’s not love
it’s an ulterior motive to ‘get’ something from the experience
(validation / purpose / worthiness / love / security etc)
and to alleviate the tension inside of you
for your own comfort; not theirs
but when you do something
anything
for or with a person
because it is what you truly want to do
knowing that no one needs saving
knowing that you’re not here to ‘help’ through contrived, measured, self-serving, pat-on-the-back receiving, recordable / postable actions and mindless obedience to the status quo…
but through the raw truth of your being and your devotion to the pulse of YOU
(and nothing is more ‘helpful’ than that)
knowing that another person’s pain is not bigger than you
or them
and that it’s not a problem to be fixed
at all
knowing that what you do or don’t do in any given moment is perfect
despite appearances
regardless of convention
no matter how another perceives it
simply because it’s what’s true right now…
then it is clean
then it is love
because it doesn’t require you or another to abandon / shrink / dilute / change / over-extend a thing for the ‘other’
or to maintain the delusion that such a thing is required to show love or to be loved in the first place
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i reached the depths i longed for
for all of my life
and now i’m sinking deeper
into nothing
into everything
into you
and into me
free-falling
into the abyss
over
and over
and over
again
there is no end
no limit
no fear
wherever i am
it’s nowhere
it’s here
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Dissatisfaction comes from not playing your game at the level you’re here to play with the people you’re here to play with.
It’s your cue that you’re hanging out on a grid that can’t possibly hit your spot.
Because it’s not meant to.
Shrinking and denying who you are and refusing to go where you’re being led should feel uncomfortable and squishy as fuck because it’s not the natural order and it’s not befitting of you.
You are meant to feel the frustration and restriction of choosing something that’s not even close to what you’re capable of enjoying and creating right now.
So jump.
And keep jumping.
No need to stay stuck in the mud.
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I consider myself one of the richest women in the world.
And it has nothing to do with money.
True wealth is who you are.
It is the ability to experience yourself and this moment, deeply and fully.
It is to never turn away from that potency of YOU, thereby diminishing it and all the beauty that comes from it.
When you are YOU - that magical, mystical beast of pure power - it all just shows up.
Everything you need, whenever you need it.
And even more than that.
I live a lush, vibrant, opulent life.
The number in my bank account has never played a role in this.
It has never been the source of my pleasure, my joy, my freedom, my fun.
I am the source of everything I experience.
My freedom and pleasure comes from within and is never dependent on another, let alone a number in the world of make believe (money is fun but it’s a social construct just the same).
I draw delicious things to me endlessly.
Experiences I couldn’t even conjur up if I tried.
Things I never had to ‘try’ to get, to ‘manifest’, to orchestrate.
I am simply myself, in my fullness, and life organizes itself around me.
It always has, regardless of my circumstance.
This is why I have never required a lot of money to live comfortably and beautifully.
I always had what money can’t buy.
I always had that which was worth even more.
I still live better than most people I know.
Because I measure the quality and ‘success’ of my life based on my enjoyment of it, and my ability to flow with it, regardless of what happens.
I am at peace.
I’m relatively free of inner and outer clutter.
I do what I love.
I spend my days as I wish.
I express myself
in any way I desire.
I have it all.
Nothing is ever missing.
I’m overflowing at every turn.
I dance with each moment as best as I can,
and I only get closer and closer to ME.
And the closer I am to who I am,
the richer my life becomes.
Because that’s how it’s supposed to be.
You’re here to enjoy yourself, your life, and to play the day away.
Free of stress and worry and unnecessary pain.
That decadent life begins with you and only you.
And maybe a call with me.
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In a world of people pleasing, ‘courtesy’, and playing pretend, those who are unwilling to be fake are often seen as rude.
Lacking tact.
Heartless, even.
Truth isn’t the culprit here.
It’s the belief that it needs to be repressed to ‘protect’ others from who we really are, and to ‘protect’ ourselves from their response to who that is.
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If you experience euphoria when and because something happens,
you’re just as susceptible to feeling its opposite in equal measure when and because something else happens.
Because your feelings are based on what happens.
And what happens changes all the time.
Which means your emotional state changes all the time.
So what happens becomes your Master.
And you get a new Master every day.
Maybe even every hour of the day.
But events are not your Master.
People are not your Master.
Feelings are not your Master.
You are the Master of you.
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Deliciousness happens when you move towards the tension.
Power.
Ecstasy.
Freedom.
Truth.
Yet most people do everything they can to avoid it.
It’s dangerous.
It’s uncomfortable.
It’s all too much.
Better to stay safe, comfortable and small than to actually leap into the unknown.
Better to complain.
Better to be bored.
Better to stick with what doesn’t work.
At least there are no surprises there.
Better to blame others,
the government,
the past,
the moon,
for all that’s going wrong.
Better to light up than to feel the tension.
Better to pour one than to feel the tension.
Better to binge than to feel the tension.
Better to overwork than to feel the tension.
Better to act powerless than to feel the tension.
Better to avoid that person, that call, that truth.
Better to lie, to hide, to cheat, to stay.
Better to just remain in the illusion that all is okay.
Anything is better than standing in one’s full power,
in the truth of each moment,
in the endless tension that it brings.
Anything is better than that.
Until it isn’t.
Then you just stop caring.
All the fucks? Gone.
Making others comfortable? Done.
Caring what they think? As if.
Risking it all? No such thing.
There are no risks.
There's nothing to lose.
There's only truth.
There’s only YOU.
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Bypassing does exist.
If there’s clutter.
But when there isn’t,
it’s energetically impossible to carry the weight of the past or of a particular experience from one moment to the next.
There’s nothing for it to attach itself to.
No stories to make it mean something.
No addiction to pain and suffering.
No delusion of being a victim.
No need to run and hide.
Clutter simply cannot exist in the void.
There’s no accumulation.
The channel is clean.
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I used to think self-mastery meant to be void of feeling.
To exist as a robot in the flesh.
But it is to feel even more deeply,
even more purely, than ever before.
It is to feel things that most wouldn’t feel under similar circumstances.
Which is why you appear so strange.
Instead of crumbling,
instead of anger,
instead of fear,
you feel calm.
Nothing can hurt you.
Lessen you.
Scare you.
At all.
Because you know that nothing is bigger than you,
and therefore,
nothing has the power to truly affect you.
Not just because you’re a god in the flesh,
but because you can see clearly now,
which allows you to pierce each illusion.
And the more self-mastered you become,
through the perpetual dismissal of,
and the seeing through,
all that is false,
the clearer your vision becomes.
The cleaner your channel becomes.
And what remains is pure, potent energy.
Existing freely.
Just like YOU.
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It doesn’t matter who stays.
It doesn’t matter who goes.
But when you make something or someone matter,
when you turn it or them into a requirement for your well-being,
for your anything,
you create a chain from you to that which you’ve made matter so much.
But as you already know,
attachment isn’t love.
Requirement isn’t love.
Need isn’t love.
In fact,
the stronger the attachment to,
requirement from,
or need for,
anything or anyone,
the less that love is present.
Pure love just IS.
With or without it,
with or without them,
all there is,
is love.
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My work has nothing to do with trust.
There is no ‘building’ it, ‘maintaining’ it, or ‘breaking’ it.
It’s all (and only) about the energy.
When it’s pure, we play.
When it’s not, we don’t.
It’s not, and will never be, about trust.
That’s what people who deny their power need to believe is necessary for them to step fully into truth.
But you don’t need to trust another.
You need to trust yourself.
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I collected and organized all my things.
I felt loyal and related to all my things.
Things I could not touch or see.
Things that inevitably travelled with me.
Things I gave power and meaning to.
Things I made matter.
Things I made true.
But in the end, they were all just things.
And things only weighed me down.
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