The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.
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Human Dynamics
Trash Panda (Mandy Bite)
in Energetics, Mandy Bites, Human Dynamics, Pain, Lovers, Makin Moves, Devil, Asses
The devil will never announce his arrival.
Your system always will.
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Seamless Exit (Mandy Bite)
No need to show them the door.
They’ll escort themselves out naturally,
the closer you stay to you.
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The Myth Of Detachment (An Essay)
Being detached doesn’t equal being unfeeling.
In fact, the less that’s in the way (the less matter aka attachment there is), the more deeply you feel precisely because the moment / experience / person / relationship isn’t being filtered through a dense / matter-filled lens, thereby providing the richest, deepest and most purified dance through each moment of life.
When you can see things and others for what they truly are (pure energy), without the overlay of human distortion / judgement / attachment / need,
and you know viscerally (not just intellectually) that when you truly don’t care about or buy into the illusions that almost everyone holds tight to (which can make you appear cold and heartless to those still mired in non-existent shit),
you’re primed for potency and possess the capacity to experience and feel it ALL.
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The Unwritten Tagline (An Essay)
The unwritten tagline of most coaches:
“I’ll take you to a place I haven’t even dared to go myself and I’ll use a bunch of words and embellishments and contrived positioning to convince you that I’ve got whatchu need and you’ll buy it because you can’t yet discern between what I’m saying and how I’m actually living / being which is precisely why you’re captivated by my bullshit in the first place. Thank you for your payment.”
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Which Is It? (Mandy Bite)
Do you want what your human wants or do you want the fucking truth?
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You're Not Special (Mandy Bite)
You’re not special.
Your story’s not special.
You’re a living god
like everyone else.
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The Confusing + Captivating Type (An Essay)
Those who are living in integrity with themselves are confusing and / or captivating (at times, even terrifying) to those who are not.
But it’s not because they know something those others don’t.
They’re just doing what most are not yet willing to do.
And until you’re in integrity with yourself, it’s not possible for you to touch what you misperceive those others have access to but you don’t.
So do the fucking work.
The work of actually listening to and honouring yourself.
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Tainted Love (Mandy Bite)
Cosmic Cliché (Mandy Bite)
Actions speak louder than words?
Energy speaks louder than both.
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Oh, Snap (Mandy Bite)
Be More Like Hanna (An Essay)
Yesterday a guy asked me what I do for a living.
Because that’s what typical, boring and conditioned humans ask other typical, boring and conditioned humans.
#cosmicredflag
So I offered my typical response:
“I float through space.”
Because who fucking cares.
Because let’s play elsewhere.
We just met and I’m already bored.
And it made me think of my friend, Hanna.
(A dreamy guest of mine on Mandyland Radio)
Whenever we have a call or check in through message, she asks, “What’s alive in your world?”
And my being just swoons.
Because THAT’s the vibe.
#letsbemorelikehanna
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Our Final Form (An Essay)
in Energetics, SEX, Human Dynamics, Lovers, Convos, Essays, Fellows
“We haven’t reached our final form.”
And I agreed with him.
But we’ve reached a million ephemeral places.
And I’ve never felt more loved.
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We're All Fucked Up (An Essay)
We’re all fucked up.
Who cares?
The human condition(ing) makes it so.
And…
We’re all perfectly intact despite the fuckedupness.
It’s both.
Human + being.
I don’t know one human who actually has all their shit together (whatever that means).
Not one.
But I know that every being exists perfectly and beautifully beyond the human shit.
And that every human touches and experiences even more of their brilliant being, both through and because of it.
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Triggered AF (An Essay)
The other isn’t the reason you get triggered.
Your experience of the other is just showing you where you’re at.
And it’s perfectly highlighting what you’ve yet to contend with.
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Fools Rush In (Mandy Bite)
It’s absurd how little it actually takes to arouse and sway the m(asses).
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Something Over Nothing (One Minute Clip)
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Sledgehammer (Mandy Bite)
They’re not against you just because they’re for themselves.
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A Terrible Fate (Mandy Bite)
Humans are gonna human.
An inevitable and terrible fate.
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Twisted Sticky Shit (An Essay)
You can’t have an expectation / demand / condition for how or when another person should behave for or in response to you…
and call that love.
You can’t point to what you’ve done for them (gross) in comparison to what you think they’ve yet to reciprocate (eww) as a way to justify why they should now perform / abandon / contort themselves for you like you clearly did for them (why else would you be keeping score)…
and call that love.
That’s manipulation.
Control.
Twisted, sticky, icky shit.
If it’s not given freely,
truthfully,
lovingly,
unconditionally…
why would you even want it?
You’d rather a performance than the real deal?
You’d rather have it the way your ego scripted it than the way it actually is?
You’d rather another do for you what you’re not willing to do for yourself?
Absurd.
People can move and exist as they wish.
You’re free to do the same.
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