Mandy Bites On Makin' Moves

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  1. I don't plan. I'm pulled.

  2. I don’t move until I’m moved.

  3. The true move does what needs to be done. Across the board. With everyone.

  4. You never get there.

  5. The action is never the point.

  6. Things are always in motion, no matter how it appears.

  7. You quell the noise by moving, and not moving, despite it.

  8. “I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.” How to respond when people question your moves.

  9. I use the Devil to get closer to God. And Hell to get closer to Heaven.

  10. When you're moving, nothing moves. Everything moves when you’re still.

  11. Wanting it different is why it stays the same.

  12. Even when I'm single, I move like I'm taken.

  13. Fuck balance. There’s no such thing. Trust obsession. It moves everything.

  14. Avoidance is passive. Non-engagement is active.

  15. fluid; not fixed

  16. When you aim, you miss.

  17. When IT happens, it’s not ‘OH MY GOD!’ It’s ‘of course.’

  18. If your shit can be fucked with by another making moves, your shit clearly needs a good fucking.

  19. When you see what others cannot see, you move in ways they can’t understand.

  20. If it isn’t freely given, it isn’t yours to take.

  21. Things move pretty fast when there’s nothing in the way.

  22. The inner resistance you’re trying to ‘overcome’ by doing X,Y,Z, is the only (illusory) thing you actually need to ‘work on’.

  23. All you’re doing with all that doing is dancing around your own fire.

  24. You can’t ‘will’ / ‘pray’ / ‘affirm’ IT into being. You can only recognize that you are IT already. And make your moves from there.

  25. Your insistence on sticking to what you said you would do, instead of making the new, true move, is why your experience fucking blows.

  26. No amount of movement (or lack of movement) in the physical can override or compensate for the instability in your system.

  27. Make the move because it's true. Regardless of what comes next.

  28. You can. You just don’t want to — yet.

  29. It’s you putting things in your own way.

  30. The other’s moves are what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.

  31. Their moves are not your business.

  32. They can be however they want to be. I’ll make my moves accordingly.

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Mandy Bites On The Work

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  1. My work is not for everyone. It’s barely for anyone. But for those whom it was made, nothing else will do. 

  2. If with or without doesn’t feel the same, your work is to bridge that divide.

  3. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  4. Life will force the expansion you’re not willing to take on your own.

  5. I use the Devil to get closer to God. And Hell to get closer to Heaven.

  6. Do the work within the current dynamic.

  7. The next one won’t be better. The same work will meet you there, too.

  8. The work is done now or not at all.

  9. I’m so in love with my body of work.

  10. There is no workaround.

  11. Almost no one wants to go all the way.

  12. You are the book you were born to study.

  13. The work is to do what’s required of you, regardless of anything else.

  14. The only thing that's 'earned' is the state you experience from the work you do to keep that inner non-space pristine.

  15. I don’t work to keep us together. I work to break things apart.

  16. I don’t care about bridging our divide. I care about bridging my own.

  17. Doing the work takes you there. Doing the work keeps you here.

  18. It all goes out the window in the face of what is.

  19. It’s all your own (un)doing.

  20. Waiting on God is waiting on you.

  21. Hail nothing.

  22. Each iteration fuels the next.

  23. New moment? Back at it.

  24. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  25. Everything is an exercise in personal power.

  26. When you know the game is to become more conscious, you use everything in front of you towards that end.

  27. I don’t care how it appears. I know what’s going on.

  28. What ‘works’ is whatever works for you. Whatever is you. Whatever feels true.

  29. The inner resistance you’re trying to override and ‘overcome’ by doing X,Y,Z, is the only (illusory) thing you actually need to ‘work on’.

  30. Self-Mastery is the process of getting kicked out of the nest repeatedly. There’s no settling into it. There’s no once and for all. There’s just this moment and how you choose to meet it.

  31. If you’re not waking up unburdened by what was, you’ve still got work to do.

  32. when there’s no one / when there’s no thing / when you’re empty / then you’ll see

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Mandy Bites On Truth

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  1. Truth isn’t revolutionary.

  2. The truth has been here this whole time.

  3. Hell is mistaking illusion for truth.

  4. Here, right now, is the only place that's true.

  5. Swallowing truth makes you sick.

  6. It 'falls apart' because it isn't true.

  7. It's not true love until there's nothing in the way.

  8. True 'justice' is reclaiming your power from everything and everyone you gave it to.

  9. Don’t honour your word. Honour yourself. The truth in THIS moment. Regardless of what you’ve said.

  10. When a deeper truth comes on the scene, I leave the rest behind.

  11. The truth of now voids the story of then.

  12. It’s not about how long it lasts. How long does it remain true?

  13. Truth always feels fresh and clean. The lack of it feels muddy.

  14. When you get to the very bottom / core / depths and truth of IT, it’s so simple, obvious, clear.

  15. No one loses from your NO. What they get is what’s most true.

  16. You have access to all of it. No more and no less than anyone else.

  17. As long as you're settling for a less than true existence, you have yet to earn the 'riches' that you misperceive are missing.

  18. Who cares if no one likes it? Who cares if no one gets it? Is it true? Is it you? That's enough.

  19. The true move does what needs to be done. Across the board. With everyone.

  20. Resisting truth = pain.

  21. You never need to ‘work out’ truth.

  22. As long as you still have something to prove, you're incapable of living from the nucleus of truth.

  23. The powerless surrender to illusion. The powerful submit to truth.

  24. Feelings are not the highest truth.

  25. Your insistence on sticking to what you said you would do, instead of making the new, true move, is why your experience fucking blows.

  26. A true NO is telling me to stop. A true edge is telling me to go.

  27. You can't use external metrics to measure what's actually true.

  28. You already know. You’re not confused. You either honour what’s true or you don’t.

  29. Anything that isn’t truth, that isn’t YOU, is clutter.

  30. When you’re attached to form, you suffer. When you’re devoted to truth, you fly.

  31. The other isn't the reason you deviate from YOU. They are the excuse you use to abandon what is true.

  32. You created X when you disowned the truth. When you own the truth, X disappears.

  33. Withholding truth is still untrue. It’s just another form of deceit.

  34. The line between truth and delusion is imperceptible to most.

  35. Speak the truth or walk away. It’s the loving thing to do.

  36. It’s not polite if it isn’t true.

  37. If you care more about what they think than you do about what’s true, you’re in a prison of your own design.

  38. What ‘works’ is whatever works for you. Whatever is you. Whatever feels true.

  39. Knowing doesn’t require trust, belief or understanding.

  40. You can’t honour truth through logic.

  41. What’s false is justified. What’s true needs no defence.

  42. It doesn't matter what you say with words. I feel what's actually true.

  43. Ignore the words. Feel what’s true.

  44. Truth covers every base.

  45. The edge you seek is truth.

  46. Words can’t override the truth of where you are (or aren’t) and make what’s not true, true.

  47. You can never close the door on truth.

  48. The deepest truths apply across the board. They’re simple, obvious, light.

  49. Hell / sin / evil / the devil is just a deviation from truth.

  50. Do you want what your human wants or do you want the fucking truth?

  51. You are God. You are Truth. Stop seeking what you are.

  52. It’s either truth or a compensation.

  53. Your story about it is not the truth of IT.

  54. You can only ‘destroy’ what wasn’t truth to begin with.

  55. Truth isn't vulnerable. It just is.

  56. The ‘narcissist’ is the inversion of truth.

  57. Loyal to truth; not the other.

  58. Truth exists, always was, is, and will be, regardless of the noise.

  59. The more you focus on symptoms, the further you stray from truth.

  60. The truth is always felt and known, beyond what is seen and done.

  61. Your level of pain is equal to your level of resistance. To your genius. To your power. To truth.

  62. Truth creates a level of tension that very few can withstand.

  63. There are times when silence is the absolute truth. And times when it’s used to avoid it.

  64. I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.

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Aging Unnaturally (An Essay)

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It’s not that you slow down the aging process when you exist naturally.

It’s that you accelerate the aging process when you don’t.

It’s not about the food.

It’s not about the exercise.

It’s about the energetic state that precedes and carries each choice and each movement.

Is it in truth or compensation?

Is it an expression and an extension of the first or not?

You already know.

Living naturally is being in sync with who you are.

Living unnaturally is being in resistance to that.

Living naturally is being free of the weight of illusion.

Living unnaturally is being steeped in it.

Resistance is what accelerates the aging process.

And when you stop resisting…

life

yourself

this moment

the other

you stop that acceleration.

So it’s not a slowing down.

It’s being what you are meant to be.

Yourself.

And free of yourself.

And when you are both,

it’s easy to see how matter ages those around you.

Because matter is heavy.

And truth is light.

And no form of diet or exercise can compensate for a life lived in compensation.

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Mandy Bites On Things

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  1. You separate things but they’re all the same.

  2. Things are always in motion, no matter how it appears.

  3. Nothing can bridge the (illusory) consciousness gap. Only no thing can.

  4. The perfect distraction leads to forced concentration on the thing you weren’t willing to face.

  5. Fuck balance. There’s no such thing. Trust obsession. It moves everything.

  6. Any thing and every thing can be used. But no thing is actually necessary.

  7. It's you putting things in your own way.

  8. If your goal is to please her, you’re doing two things wrong.

  9. Accumulation doesn’t impress or interest me. I prefer things light; not heavy.

  10. I don’t work to keep us together. I work to break things apart.

  11. “Things were never the same after that.” After you stayed when you should have left.

  12. You haven’t lost anything. But if you’re ballsy enough, and you’re doing it right, you’ll lose EVERY. SINGLE. THING.

  13. The things that jam your circuits are the portals to yourself.

  14. That thing? That person? Not more powerful than you.

  15. It’s funny to me that people attribute / thank Jesus / God for them getting the things they want. But rarely (if ever) for the things they don’t.

  16. The whole ‘God is outside of you / bigger and more powerful than you’ thing is completely absurd.

  17. Either clean it up so that it hits your spot or let that fucking thing go.

  18. Those things will remain messy things until you actually clean up these things.

  19. All things exist to be made pure.

  20. Every thing is malleable.

  21. None of it matters. Stop making it a thing.

  22. You don't owe anyone a thing.

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No Thing Changed Your Life (An Essay)

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“That thing (whatever it was) changed my life.”

No.

Finally submitting to yourself allowed you to experience your true life that was here all along.

You know, the one where your own bullshit isn’t in the way.

You just used that thing to ‘get’ here.

But any thing could have been used.

And…

no thing was actually necessary.

It was,

and it is,

always just you and YOU.

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Isn't It Funny? (An Essay)

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if circumstances aren’t real

and problems aren’t real

and the past isn’t real

and your story isn’t real

isn’t it funny

that you hire a coach

based on circumstances

you deem as a problem

based on a past

you’re bringing into the present

via the story

you’ve got running through your head

so you can dive further

into your own delusion

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Before You Buy The Program (An Essay)

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If you’re paying a money / relationship / whatever the fuck coach…

whose ‘job’ it is to ‘help’ you

‘clear your blocks’

(you don’t have any)

‘see your worth’

(not a thing)

‘heal’ you-name-it

(never gonna happen)

‘get’ / ‘attract’ / ‘manifest’

(i can’t even)

the money

the relationship

whatever the fuck

using whatever methods / systems / programs / containers

they’ve concocted or replicated…

just notice that they, too,

are starting and operating from a false premise.

They, too,

are buying into

(and benefitting from)

your story

that something is lacking

(the money / the relationship / the self-worth / whatever the fuck)

and they are selling you a ‘solution’ to this perceived lack,

this perceived ‘problem’

or else why would they have ‘created’ a way to ‘fix’ it?

To ‘change’ your ‘reality’ from A to B?

(effectively buying into the same illusion as you - #matchymatchy)

Why else would such a thing be necessary…

if they knew,

and you knew,

that you are innately sovereign and powerful.

And that you don’t need add-ons or a guidebook in being who you are and moving naturally from that,

which ‘gets’ you all the things without needing to rely on a thing.

Why would they be selling a program if they knew and you knew that there’s nothing wrong or missing.

That it’s all right here, right now.

That you have it all.

That you are all of it.

That at best, the ‘tools’ and ‘processes’ and ‘gurus’ are what you use to finally give yourself permission to be what you already are without them.

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The Infinite Investment (An Essay)

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it is impossible to ‘waste’

time

money

energy

your life

—

all of it is an investment

no matter how it’s spent

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Her: “Even if invested with the wrong people?”

Me: “Wrong aka exactly right for where you were when you chose ‘wrong’, or else you would have chosen ‘right’ instead (which you did anyways because there is no ‘wrong’)

Her: “What if I knew it was wrong and still chose the same a few times over like a loop until I got it? Not a waste of time?”

Me: “Right. That training ground is not a waste because it leads you to stop that loop. It doesn’t matter how many times you loop. Eventually, you won’t.”

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Breakthroughs Aren't Enough (An Essay)

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Just like you wouldn’t expect one meal to satiate you for a week,

or one shower to keep you clean for a month,

or one workout to keep you fit for life,

or one deep clean of your place to magically make it so that you never need to clean again,

you can’t expect the inner work to take care of itself once-and-for-all just because you had some sort of breakthrough.

It’s a progressive cleaning up.

And you can’t get to the maintenance part until you’ve dealt with all the accumulation.

So yes, it gets ‘easier’ as you chip away at all that you’re not,

but you will never reach a point where you’re done the work and are good-to-go for life.

The work is done for life.

Because there are always more ways and more opportunities to sharpen, to deepen, to expand, to refine.

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About That Coldplay Moment (An Essay)

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Posted by a friend on Facebook:

“You have to wonder why the demise of two families at a Coldplay concert is shared more than the tragedies going on around the world. Such a sad state of the world.”

Her friend chimes in:

“I agree 100%. I also don't find anything funny about it. People's lives have been destroyed by this, and its being treated like a joke?”

My take:

Exposing truth doesn’t destroy families.

It liberates everyone involved.

It was the hiding that was destructive.

Now each person is free to choose.

Also,

everyone laughed because it was comedy gold.

Duh.

It was a moment in time that brought everyone together.

So rare.

Whereas “tragedies going on around the world” are happening 24/7/365.

The comparison is silly.

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