You can't fix an illusion.
And every 'problem' is an illusion.
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Twisted Sticky Shit (An Essay)
You can’t have an expectation / demand / condition for how or when another person should behave for or in response to you…
and call that love.
You can’t point to what you’ve done for them (gross) in comparison to what you think they’ve yet to reciprocate (eww) as a way to justify why they should now perform / abandon / contort themselves for you like you clearly did for them (why else would you be keeping score)…
and call that love.
That’s manipulation.
Control.
Twisted, sticky, icky shit.
If it’s not given freely,
truthfully,
lovingly,
unconditionally…
why would you even want it?
You’d rather a performance than the real deal?
You’d rather have it the way your ego scripted it than the way it actually is?
You’d rather another do for you what you’re not willing to do for yourself?
Absurd.
People can move and exist as they wish.
You’re free to do the same.
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8 Ball (Mandy Bite)
Don't Do It (Mandy Bite)
Self Abandonment 101 (One Minute Clip)
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Accelerate The Inevitable (An Essay)
Speed.
Power.
Potency.
Precision.
When we join forces,
I won’t offer tools or processes.
We won’t work on mindset or strategy.
We won’t scour your past for a link to the present.
And you won’t learn how to manage a thing.
Truth requires absolutely no-thing.
It’s time to play a new kind of game.
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Counterfeit vs Real Love (An Essay)
I’ll leave myself to meet you there.
You’ll do the same for me.
vs
I’ll stay right here.
You’ll stay right there.
We’ll dance in the inbetween.
Or not.
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Beneath Your Egoic Conditions (An Essay)
when you
want it
need it
expect it
demand it
even just ask for it
when you feel entitled to it
deserving of it
as if it was owed to you
when you’re keeping score
playing tit for tat
requiring life to meet your egoic conditions
you’ve forgotten who and what you truly are:
an immense power that generates
each perfectly curated piece
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You Can't Go Wrong (Mandy Bite)
What’s not IT always leads to IT.
So ALL of it is IT.
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Being The Living Truth (One Minute Clip)
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TRANSCRIPT
Me: “It’s only the mind that assumes that whatever powerful resources you already have in you, will just not work in the future. ‘So what can I do preemptively to make sure I’ll be okay?’ Which is nothing but bullshit. So to ask that question, is to deny your own power.”
Her: “Right.”
Me: “That the magnificence that I already am, just might not be enough… then.”
Her: (laughs) “Right.”
Me: “That something will somehow be bigger than me and I won’t be able to deal with it properly. Or that there’s even a proper way to deal with anything. No. You are just in a moment, being the living truth.”
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So Easy (Mandy Bite)
Taking care of THIS automatically takes care of that.
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Plain As Day (Mandy Bite)
Zero Point Living (Mandy Bite)
This Way (Mandy Bite)
A Superficial Game (Mandy Bite)
You crave external markers when internal spots aren’t hit.
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Beyond Penetration (One Minute Clip)
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You're Not Doing The Work (An Essay)
in Energetics, Makin Moves, Essays
if you only do the work when you feel like it
when it’s easy
comfortable
convenient
when the results are fast and guaranteed
then guess what?
you’re not actually doing the work
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The Real Teacher (Mandy Bite)
Your existence teaches more than any words or teachings will.
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Happiness Isn't My Goal (An Essay)
I don’t care about or strive towards feeling happy.
I’m here to feel ALIVE.
Uncomfortable.
Powerful.
Present.
To immerse myself in whatever I touch.
To exist fully, naturally, joyfully, deeply.
Which includes so much beyond (and also includes) those ephemeral moments of happiness.
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Filling In Another's Perceived Gaps (An Essay)
You only try to fill in the (perceived) gaps for another when you forget that they are sovereign, just like you.
And you can only forget another’s sovereignty when you have forgotten your own (cue a false sense of superiority) which is the only reason you’d ever feel the need to over-reach in the first place.
Your discomfort with where another is choosing to be at (yes, choosing - there are no victims and no one needs saving) generates your over-extension in an attempt to relieve yourself of said discomfort which actually has nothing to do with what the other is or isn’t doing / seeing / getting in that moment.
This is what feeds your desire to change / correct what’s being presented to whatever you deem better / more ‘evolved’ than what they’re currently choosing for themselves,
which inevitably breeds resistance and stagnation; not clarity and movement, because the energy of your so-called help is tainted aka sourced from a false premise to begin with.
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