Beyond Coping (One Minute Clip)
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Have You Earned Your Spot? (An Essay)
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You can’t override where you are.
You can’t jump to a place you’ve yet to earn your spot in and simply play pretend.
Well, you can try.
But that lack of integrity is palpable.
That overreaching and energetic incongruence is felt.
And it’s completely unnecessary.
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Beyond Your Identity (An Essay)
in Energetics, Victim Bullshit, Pain, Triggered, Essays
the things you identify with
or (mis)perceive yourself to be
your past
your pain
your story
your race
your age
your body
your gender and orientation
your role as this
your status as that
your (fill in the blank) that matters so much
all of these things
at the deepest level
are not who you actually are
and the more strongly you identify with whatever it is
and get heated as you protest for or against it
or heaven forbid
attempt to protect it
(because who would you be without ‘it’)
the further you are
from the ultimate truth
hence your need to identify
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The Myth Of Detachment (An Essay)
Being detached doesn’t equal being unfeeling.
In fact, the less that’s in the way (the less matter aka attachment there is), the more deeply you feel precisely because the moment / experience / person / relationship isn’t being filtered through a dense / matter-filled lens, thereby providing the richest, deepest and most purified dance through each moment of life.
When you can see things and others for what they truly are (pure energy), without the overlay of human distortion / judgement / attachment / need,
and you know viscerally (not just intellectually) that when you truly don’t care about or buy into the illusions that almost everyone holds tight to (which can make you appear cold and heartless to those still mired in non-existent shit),
you’re primed for potency and possess the capacity to experience and feel it ALL.
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No Self (Mandy Bite)
Raw Dogging Life (An Essay)
Others can point to IT.
Be a demonstration of IT (at best).
But the IT you seek comes from one thing only:
daring to be present enough in your own experience (no matter what it contains) to do the actual work of facing, feeling and seeing right through whatever shit is in the way of your heaven.
Raw-dogging life.
No buffer.
It’s as simple and as hard as that.
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The Unwritten Tagline (An Essay)
The unwritten tagline of most coaches:
“I’ll take you to a place I haven’t even dared to go myself and I’ll use a bunch of words and embellishments and contrived positioning to convince you that I’ve got whatchu need and you’ll buy it because you can’t yet discern between what I’m saying and how I’m actually living / being which is precisely why you’re captivated by my bullshit in the first place. Thank you for your payment.”
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Surrender vs Submission (An Essay)
In his brilliant work (The Untethered Soul, Living Untethered, The Michael Singer Podcast), Michael Singer uses the word ‘surrender’ (a lot) for what is actually full submission (aka ‘going blind’, as he noted so accurately).
But words are just words.
It’s the energy that speaks.
And his energy speaks volumes.
Typically when others speak and write of surrender, I cringe a little because you can feel the powerlessness in it.
They’re expressing from a passive / hopeful state.
It’s a giving up.
A handing over.
A feeling of defeat.
At times it’s even manipulative.
It’s: ‘I’ll do this so I can get that.”
It’s pretending not to care while caring very much.
It’s pretending to let go while waiting for it to come.
The energy of surrender is powerless.
The energy of submission however…
is PURE. FUCKING. POWER.
It’s actively remaining still.
It’s fully engaged.
It’s a deeply felt KNOWing.
Even when it appears like nothing is ‘happening’.
Existing wide awake and never moving IS the happening.
Submission is being erect / intact / discerning.
Which is the opposite of surrender.
It’s actually never surrendering.
It’s never deviating from one’s Self.
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Consistency Isn't Required (An Essay)
Consistency in the physical isn’t required when you’re energetically intact.
When you’re in complete integrity with yourself, you create consistency on the only level that matters, and your system (and every extension of it) works more efficiently than you can imagine regardless of how things are or aren’t ‘adding up’ externally.
This doesn’t mean that being in integrity can’t also include consistency in the physical.
You just aren’t reliant on contrived external movements (moves sourced from ulterior motives) to ‘achieve’ your so-called results.
Because here’s a fun fact:
The best ‘results’ come from ‘dissolving’ inner resistance (seeing through matter which turns it right back to nothing); not from applying force externally in an attempt to compensate for the accumulation of matter that’s creating said resistance.
That same inner resistance you’re trying to ‘overcome’ and override by doing all the things, is the only (illusory) thing you actually need to ‘work on’.
The rest takes care of itself.
When you are free of that inner resistance,
free of the need to manage things in the physical,
free of the impulse to ‘make’ things happen,
you’ll naturally move in ways that are beneficial to you.
You’ll instinctively be led to whatever movements (or non-movements - same thing) that will further your mission to be and remain intact, regardless of what you do or don’t do.
This ultimately lands you in the perfect spots ‘out there’ as well, which simply can’t happen when you focus exclusively on what you’re doing externally without questioning why you feel the need to do those things in the first place.
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Which Is It? (Mandy Bite)
Do you want what your human wants or do you want the fucking truth?
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What's Most Alive (One Minute Clip)
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Deviating From What's Natural (An Essay)
When you’ve deviated from the truth and natural movements of your being (a complete betrayal to your system), the only way to live with that internal split is to distract yourself with self-created 'issues’ that would not exist (and ultimately don't) had you remained in your power (your natural state) in the first place.
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You Can't Miss (An Essay)
No amount of movement (or lack of movement) in the physical can override or compensate for the instability in your system.
When you’re energetically spinning, every shot is a miss.
And when you’re energetically still, it’s impossible to miss.
Every movement (and lack of movement) will inevitably hit the spot.
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Life Ratio (Mandy Bite)
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The Shape Of Water (Mandy Bite)
You're Not Special (Mandy Bite)
You’re not special.
Your story’s not special.
You’re a living god
like everyone else.
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No Hidden Truths (One Minute Clip)
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TRANSCRIPT
Her: “There aren’t truths that are buried and hidden enough that I’m not gonna get at them?”
Me: *shakes head*
Her: “No?!”
Me: “You ARE truth. Under the guise of illusion. There is nothing you aren’t already, that you would need to become. You have access to all of it. No less and no more than anybody else.”
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The Helliest Hell There Is (An Essay)
Living inside a NO is one of the helliest hells there is.
It’s a complete mindfuck.
It ensures you’ll continually be, and quite unsuccessfully, managing the content of the experience that you (often regrettably) said yes to, instead of enjoying the magic that’s delivered on the other side of each very exacting and undeniably brilliant NO.
It ensures that the experience you weren’t ever meant to be part of in the first place (cuz your NO fucking told you so), gets messier, uglier, louder and even more distorted and impossible to ‘resolve’, the longer you stay beyond said NO.
And until you recognize and own your original transgression (as well as each subsequent one), you’ll mistakenly point to the other (and what they are or aren’t being or doing), or to the situation itself (and all the ways it fucking blows) for why you’re so unhappy in the experience that YOU said yes to while knowing it was a NO.
You might even feel and begin to act like a victim of circumstance, and you can undoubtedly rally others to support this false narrative, but you knew from the start and you still chose to go so where is the victim in that?
It’s just easier to defer your power and call it by another name than to own it and tell it like it is.
It’s easier to blame your past for what you’re choosing and experiencing in the present than to do what needs to be done.
It’s easier to say yes ‘for’ or ‘because of’ this or that, rather than to honour that exquisite NO and take the imagined risk that such a bold move brings, without knowing why this just isn’t IT.
But you’ll learn soon enough.
You’ll inevitably discover firsthand why your system warned you against what you’re now in the midst of enduring, and are currently, often repeatedly, trying to extract yourself from.
And it’s perfect.
It was unavoidable.
And it’s all by your own design.
Because if you were seasoned enough to not do that wonky thing you do (ignoring what you know), you wouldn’t create these experiences for yourself to learn how not to get to the point where you’re at right now.
So you can’t lose regardless of how lost you feel or what you perceive you’ve lost through each ordeal, because each one effectively shows you where you veered off, and one day you just won’t.
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