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Mandy Bites On Clutter

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  1. Organizing clutter doesn’t get rid of clutter.

  2. Making it matter repels the thing you’ve made matter.

  3. It’s you putting things in your own way.

  4. Thick with ick aka energetically dense.

  5. Holding space holds it in place.

  6. What feels like magic is just you unobstructed.

  7. I go where it’s the loudest, just to make it quiet.

  8. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  9. The cleaner it gets inside and out, the more one notices - and the less one tolerates - debris of any kind.

  10. The only thing that's 'earned' is the state you experience from the work you do to keep that inner non-space pristine.

  11. They bring their mess to clean you up.

  12. The mess is part of the art.

  13. The things that jam your circuits are the portals to yourself.

  14. You know exactly how to clean up your shit.

  15. It’s not because you can’t clean it up. You just don’t want to — yet.

  16. Freshen it up or burn it down.

  17. Even in darkness, one can still be clean.

  18. Stripping myself brings the naked ones to me.

  19. You don’t ‘come down’ from clean energy. You just get cleaner.

  20. The more that’s removed, the more there is.

  21. Things move pretty fast when there’s nothing in the way.

  22. Oh, how I love when there's nothing in the way.

  23. It takes so little to play with me. But most are filled with so much.

  24. Getting unjammed where it’s been the most jammed, unjams you everywhere else.

  25. Equally empty and full.

  26. The human needs the clutter. The being is the space.

  27. Stillness. Silence. Space. Beneath the chaos, that’s all there is.

  28. Anything that isn’t true, that isn’t you, is clutter.

  29. Nothing needs to be added. What’s removed is what changes the game.

  30. You’re here to clear the atmosphere.

  31. Truth always feels fresh and clean. The lack of it feels muddy.

  32. Your system is naturally self-cleaning.

  33. Your job isn’t done until the matter is gone.

  34. Stay until nothing is left.

  35. From cluttered to clean. From restless to still. That’s the electric tone.

  36. If there’s nothing left, I’m out. If there’s no thing at all, I’m in.

  37. Either clean it up so that it hits your spot or let that fucking thing go.

  38. The real magic doesn’t happen once you get the shit. It happens once you clear it.

  39. Accumulation doesn’t impress or interest me. I prefer things light; not heavy.

  40. when there’s no one / when there’s no thing / when you’re empty / then you’ll see

  41. You can clean it all up in an instant.

  42. Bypassing does exist. But only if there’s clutter.

  43. The best ‘results’ come from dissolving inner resistance (seeing through matter which turns it right back to nothing); not from applying force externally in an attempt to compensate for the accumulation of matter that’s creating said resistance.

  44. what a mess / you make / of me (2015)

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Mandy Bites On The System

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  1. The energy of ‘fighting against’ is more disruptive and detrimental to your system than the thing you’re fighting against.

  2. When you’ve deviated from the truth and natural movements of your being (a complete betrayal to your system), the only way to live with that internal split is to distract yourself with self-created 'issues’ that would not exist (and ultimately don't) had you remained in your power (your natural state) in the first place.

  3. When you’ve got nothing to prove and nothing to lose, you’re dangerous. And free.

  4. A system knows nothing beyond itself.

  5. If you’re creating a system to counter the system… Need I say more?

  6. Anti is still pro.

  7. If you’re in a container, you’re being contained.

  8. Your habitual state is not your natural state.

  9. Parameters keep you caged; not safe.

  10. They’re not against you just because they’re for themselves.

  11. Worth and value are not intrinsic. Everything that exists, just IS. Devoid of contrived and arbitrary overlays.

  12. Consistency in the physical isn’t required when you’re energetically intact.

  13. I can’t be trained out of who I am.

  14. You do what you’re told by them. I do what I’m told by me.

  15. Your nature is to self-generate.

  16. Your system tells you everything you need to know.

  17. You can't use external metrics to measure what's actually true.

  18. You crave external markers when internal spots aren’t hit.

  19. You use and teach tools and processes because you don’t trust yourself enough to go rogue.

  20. The only ‘tool’ you actually need is custom-built into each moment.

  21. Your system is naturally self-cleaning.

  22. Your system inevitably screams NO when you've ignored its multiple whispers.

  23. No amount of movement (or lack of movement) in the physical can override or compensate for the instability in your system.

  24. The inner resistance you’re trying to ‘overcome’ by doing X,Y,Z, is the only (illusory) thing you actually need to ‘work on’.

  25. The devil will never announce his arrival. Your system always will.

  26. I’m playing in a new arena because the old one’s much too small.

  27. No one can crack your code but you.

  28. There is no code to crack.

  29. You must account for the trickle down.

  30. If there’s a box, I’m gonna smash it. Sounds sexual but I don’t swing that way.

  31. Ask any box and it will say it's the biggest and the best and the smartest box there is. That it’s the box of all boxes. The last box you’ll ever need. But it's still just a box. And a box can’t set you free.

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Mandy Bites On The M/Asses

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  1. You’re not for the (m)asses.

  2. The world is lava.

  3. The powerless surrender to illusion. The powerful submit to truth.

  4. You do what you’re told by them. I do what I’m told by me.

  5. It’s absurd how little it actually takes to arouse and sway the (m)asses.

  6. A ‘king of the people’ speaks directly to the codependent hearts of the (m)asses.

  7. If the (m)asses don’t get it, it’s something worth getting.

  8. Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in… | Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”

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Mandy Bites On Pain

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  1. Resisting truth = pain.

  2. The real ‘no contact’ is with the abuser in your head.

  3. You are the only remedy for your suffering.

  4. If the pain runs deep, the power does, too. Most fear the latter, so they settle on the former.

  5. The longing for death, at the deepest level, is the desire to live unbound.

  6. Even in darkness, one can still be clean.

  7. When you see clearly, nothing hurts.

  8. Swallowing truth makes you sick.

  9. Your willingness and capacity to suffer with and for another, is not love (for yourself or the other).

  10. It’s always the most tender where you hold the most matter.

  11. You really can’t override living in a NO. You either stop doing that or you suffer.

  12. It hurts so you can learn how to not do that shit that hurts you.

  13. Your level of pain is equal to your level of resistance. To your brilliance. To your power. To truth.

  14. You feed the pain because you get off on it. When you’re done getting off, it’s gone.

  15. When you’re attached to form, you suffer. When you’re devoted to truth, you fly.

  16. It stops when you do.

  17. If you weren't trying to outsource from another what you can only provide for yourself, you would not have ended up in something that hurts you.

  18. You want to leave because you’ve yet to fully own you. And there’s no greater pain than that.

  19. Your deepest, most excrutiating pain comes from one thing only.

  20. You feed, consume and showcase the pain because you get off on it.

  21. he didn’t mean well / he meant to harm.

  22. what first felt like freedom / turned into a cage / i slept with the enemy / my predator / his prey

  23. People ‘love’ you more when you suffer. Let that shit sink in.

  24. Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in… | Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”

  25. off to bed / with a bleeding heart / you must be on my mind (2015)

  26. i’m feeling my way through / the grooves of my tender heart (2015)

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Mandy Bites On The IT

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  1. You want the experience of IT. Not the ‘it’ itself.

  2. If you do it ‘for’ or ‘because’, it's not IT.

  3. When nothing can stop you, that’s IT.

  4. You question it because it's not IT.

  5. Your story about it is not the truth of IT.

  6. I don’t create. I stay out of the way. IT is created through me.

  7. It’s supposed to feel like this → ☁️ ☁️ ☁️

  8. You can’t ‘will’ / ‘pray’ / ‘affirm’ IT into being. You can only recognize that you are IT already. And make your moves from there.

  9. Taking care of THIS automatically takes care of that.

  10. THIS or nothing + THIS because there’s nothing.

  11. When you'd rather have nothing than whatever this is, so begins the freefall to IT.

  12. Others can point to IT. Be a demonstration of IT (at best). But the IT you seek comes from one thing only. (THIS)

  13. The part of you that’s searching for IT, is the reason you can’t find IT.

  14. You already know when you’re HOME. And when you’re ‘lost’, you search for IT externally.

  15. You don’t have to talk about it when you are IT.

  16. Wherever you are is where IT's at.

  17. What’s not IT always leads to IT.

  18. ALL of it is IT.

  19. You get what you say YES to. So don’t say YES to a thing. Keep saying NO to all that’s not IT. A living dream is all that remains.

  20. If it needs to be managed, it’s not IT.

  21. IT will remain illusive until the only door left is you.

  22. If you only have it because you’re holding on, you don’t have IT. It has you.

  23. You aim for money instead of being THIS. When being THIS is where IT’s at.

  24. You don’t discover, rediscover, ever lose or find IT.

  25. You don’t have it? You don’t need it. When you need it, it will come.

  26. You already have and are IT, even if and when you’re not experiencing IT.

  27. When you get to the very bottom / core / depths and truth of IT, it’s so simple, obvious, clear.

  28. Need is why you don’t get IT. And… Need is why you don’t ‘get’ IT. If you catch my cryptic drift.

  29. The world; she owns. By IT; she’s owned.

  30. To the energy within, she freely submits.

  31. IT’s here when you are.

  32. Instead of being THIS, you aim for that. When being THIS is where IT’s at.

  33. If you’re searching, you’re not ready. When you’re ready, IT is here.

  34. anchored and untethered

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  1. Sometimes you’re their karma.

  2. The answer is more butter.

  3. Wakey-wakey, bitch.

  4. It’s all your own (un)doing.

  5. I’m here to destroy and be destroyed.

  6. Permission to be cunty.

  7. Batshit sane.

  8. Hail nothing.

  9. #erectionsforeveryone

  10. WHO. GIVES. A. FUCK. DO. WHATEVER. THE. FUCK. YOU. WANT.

  11. She’s only a bitch if you are.

  12. I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.

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Mandy Bites On Jesus Christ

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  1. You forgot that you’re God and it shows.

  2. It’s funny to me that people attribute / thank Jesus / God for them getting the things they want. But rarely (if ever) for the things they don’t.

  3. The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus

  4. When IT happens, it’s not ‘OH MY GOD!’ It’s ‘of course.’

  5. Hail nothing.

  6. Heaven is THIS; not that. Heaven is HERE; not there.

  7. “I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.” How to respond when people question your moves.

  8. I use the Devil to get closer to God. And Hell to get closer to Heaven.

  9. You’re living in a state of delusion if you don’t know yourself to be God.

  10. You’re not special. Your story’s not special. You’re a living god like everyone else.

  11. Heaven is being exactly who and where you are.

  12. I am hell to be with. I am heaven to BE with, too.

  13. Since when does a god have to try?

  14. The whole ‘God is outside of you / bigger and more powerful than you’ thing is completely absurd.

  15. You are God. You are truth. Stop seeking what you are.

  16. If you fear money, you fear yourself. You fear your own power. And God itself.

  17. Money is God in motion.

  18. You can’t ‘will’ / ‘pray’ / ‘affirm’ IT into being. You can only recognize that you are IT already. And make your moves from there.

  19. i shall tie you to a pillar / as an offering to the gods / and then i shall consume you / make a drink of your sweet blood

  20. Purity is the currency.

  21. Follow yourself to get to heaven.

  22. Stop making people your God.

  23. Waiting on God is waiting on you.

  24. When you deny yourself, you deny God itself. #samething

  25. Everyone’s a genius. Very few express it. Everyone’s a god. Very few recall.

  26. You are God in the flesh. And the answer to yourself.

  27. from the depths / from the silence / from the world beyond this one

  28. i have no interest in mortal love / i’m seeking the divine / a dancing of souls in the mystical realm / untouched by space and time

  29. Your willingness and capacity to suffer with and for another, is not love (for yourself or the other).

  30. You must touch God before you dare to touch me.

  31. All things exist to be made pure.

  32. when you refuse to deviate from yourself / for anything / for anyone / at any time / then… / you live / your life / as a god

  33. Nothing is sacred unless everything is.

  34. Church is always in session.

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Mandy Bites On Human vs Being

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  1. I love myself. I love being free of myself.

  2. Heaven is being exactly who and where you are.

  3. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

  4. When you’re attached to form, you suffer. When you’re devoted to truth, you fly.

  5. Your being is orchestrating every single piece.

  6. "Oh, look! Another way to avoid myself!" Humans

  7. Why would you put the mentally ill (human) in charge of your life?

  8. Do you want what your human wants or do you want the fucking truth?

  9. If it’s a NO for your being, it’s a NO for theirs, too. No exceptions.

  10. I don't want to get to know you / (the content of your life) / I'm here to experience and enjoy you / (the being that you are)

  11. It’s the inability to withstand the intense aliveness of being that drives the impulse to dilute or run from it, just as the inability to withstand it drives the impulse to seek that same jolt of aliveness through superficial means.

  12. When you’ve deviated from the truth and natural movements of your being (a complete betrayal to your system), the only way to live with that internal split is to distract yourself with self-created 'issues’ that would not exist (and ultimately don't) had you remained in your power (your natural state) in the first place.

  13. Every being chooses when it enters and leaves this world. As well as what it enters into. It’s the human that can’t see beyond the illusion of form and time, thus believing something should or could have been different, and / or something actually went wrong.

  14. What exhilarates the human is terrifying for the being.

  15. What’s in line with the being, feels out of line to the human.

  16. The human needs time. The being exists outside of it.

  17. The human thinks one thing. The being knows another.

  18. The human makes excuses. The being just says NO.

  19. The human wants a particular thing. The being loves (and uses) what is.

  20. The human needs the clutter. The being is the space.

  21. Give the human what it wants and it will see it’s not what it wanted.

  22. Your being won't play in a box.

  23. All things are #thisorthat to the human. All things are #samesame to the being.

  24. Humans are gonna human. An inevitable and terrible fate.

  25. You can't use external metrics to measure what's actually true.

  26. You crave external markers when internal spots aren’t hit.

  27. The ones who don’t want you to be you, are the ones who aren’t being themselves.

  28. How to successfully human: 1. Honour external commitments. 2. Ignore internal commands.

  29. “We need to take care of our own.” But humanity is our own.

  30. Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in… / Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”

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Mandy Bites On Fear

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  1. I’d feel afraid, too, if I wasn’t in charge of myself.

  2. Fear of the unknown is a lack of trust in your power and ability to navigate what you, yourself, have perfectly orchestrated.

  3. It’s not love or fear. It’s love and fear. Love includes the acceptance of fear. And anything else that arises.

  4. If the pain runs deep, the power does, too. Most fear the latter, so they settle on the former.

  5. I was terrified there would be nothing left. But when nothing was left, I was free.

  6. Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in… | Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”

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Mandy Bites On Mentoring

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  1. My work is not for everyone. It’s barely for anyone. But for those whom it was made, nothing else will do. 

  2. If you want or need something from a call with me, it’s not time for a call with me.

  3. I had to go beyond all of them.

  4. It’s all your own (un)doing.

  5. Tools keep you stuck.

  6. If you’re searching, you’re not ready. When you’re ready, IT is here. (Peep The IT Collection)

  7. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  8. Those who come to you, just know. Because you know. And they want to dance with that knowing.

  9. It takes so little to play with me. But most are filled with so much.

  10. If you’re not ready to off yourself, I’m of no use to you.

  11. Most can’t ride, let alone fly.

  12. In the land of energetics, it's every hottie for themselves.

  13. How can you command a thing when you can’t command yourself.

  14. Don't aim to help others. Master yourself. This 'helps' them most of all.

  15. Rise through the ranks within yourself.

  16. Your existence is confronting to those who’ve yet to face themselves.

  17. Almost no one wants to go all the way.

  18. It doesn’t matter why someone isn’t ready. Or if they will ever be. If they can’t walk through that door with you, that’s all you need to know.

  19. People see me when they’re ready to see themselves.

  20. You use and teach tools and processes because you don’t trust yourself enough to go rogue.

  21. The only ‘tool’ you actually need is custom-built into each moment.

  22. I don’t ‘support’ anyone. They’re powerful. They’re grown. And wired to live from truth.

  23. I blow shit up endlessly. Because I love you and I love me.

  24. Stripping myself brings the naked ones to me.

  25. The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus

  26. You’re not special. Your story’s not special. You’re a living god like everyone else.

  27. The work is to do the work until nothing remains. Until nothing can move you from you.

  28. Masters exist beyond the tribe.

  29. Their maps can’t take you HOME.

  30. You don’t actually want to be saved. You want to be the Master of yourself and the domain that’s housed by You.

  31. If you’re in a container, you’re being contained.

  32. Mindset work takes you even deeper into the programming (illusion) you’re attempting to free yourself from by doing mindset work.

  33. Holding space holds it in place.

  34. My work is not inclusive. I speak to the bold. The brave. The hungry (for death).

  35. All I want is to destroy you. Strip you bare and leave you for dead.

  36. Self-Mastery is the process of getting kicked out of the nest repeatedly. There’s no settling into it. There’s no once and for all. There’s just this moment and how you choose to meet it.

  37. Masters don’t need to be pushed or kicked. They willingly jump off the cliff.

  38. I’m playing in a new arena because the old one’s much too small.

  39. It’s either me or your shit. Never both. It’s always up to you.

  40. Don’t look to me for how to be. You already know what to do.

  41. Them: “What do you do for a living?” Me: “Float through space.”

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Mandy Bites On The NO

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  1. If it’s a NO for your being, it’s a NO for theirs, too. No exceptions.

  2. Your NO is telling you that a higher quality experience is available through and beyond said NO.

  3. Your system inevitably screams NO when you've ignored its multiple whispers.

  4. Living inside a NO is one of the helliest hells there is.

  5. It stops when you do.

  6. no story = no problem

  7. There are times when a NO within an experience is enough to keep it fresh and intact energetically. And times when a NO must be applied to it directly, to maintain that same level of integrity.

  8. You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.

  9. My NO with him only adds to the turn on. Without that being my incentive to honour it.

  10. A true NO is telling me to stop. A true edge is telling me to go.

  11. You get what you say YES to. So don’t say YES to a thing. Keep saying NO to all that’s not IT. A living dream is all that remains.

  12. If you’re resentful and angry, you said YES to a NO.

  13. You can't access the MORE while saying yes to less.

  14. You already know. You’re not confused. You either honour what’s true or you don’t.

  15. Ignoring yourself is expensive as hell.

  16. No one loses from your NO. What they get is what’s most true.

  17. it doesn’t matter why a NO is a NO / or who or what it involves / the NO is to the energy / and energy never lies

  18. You need to be willing to say NO without having something to say YES to.

  19. Avoidance is passive. Non-engagement is active.

  20. The human makes excuses. The being just says NO.

  21. Saying nothing says everything that needs to be said.

  22. You wouldn’t need to draw a line with words if the line was energetically there to begin with.

  23. “Things were never the same after that.” After you stayed when you should have left.

  24. You really can’t override living in a NO. You either stop doing that or you suffer.

  25. There is no making it right from within the cage of self-betrayal. The ‘issue’ IS the self-betrayal; not the actual NO itself.

  26. You get what you say yes to. And all the shit that brings.

  27. At the end, you come to what you knew at the start. And actively chose to ignore.

  28. By the time you say to yourself or another, “This is the last time (…)”, you have already bypassed your NO, relinquished your power, and ignored that moment of knowing.

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Mandy Bites On Addiction

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  1. What you’ve yet to own, owns you.

  2. Doing or not doing won’t correct what needs correcting.

  3. Love doesn’t enable dysfunction.

  4. The perfect distraction leads to forced concentration on the thing you weren’t willing to face.

  5. If they run from themselves, they’ll run from you, too.

  6. Stop looking for something to hide behind.

  7. We each create exactly what we’re inevitably here to dissolve.

  8. It’s the inability to withstand the intense aliveness of being that drives the impulse to dilute or run from it, just as the inability to withstand it drives the impulse to seek that same jolt of aliveness through superficial means.

  9. There is a purity, an innocence, and a very clean desire, at the heart of every addiction and compulsion.

  10. If the pain runs deep, the power does, too. Most fear the latter, so they settle on the former.

  11. When you’ve deviated from the truth and natural movements of your being (a complete betrayal to your system), the only way to live with that internal split is to distract yourself with self-created 'issues’ that would not exist (and ultimately don't) had you remained in your power (your natural state) in the first place.

  12. The addiction itself is not the issue. What’s sourcing the pattern of addiction IS. And even that is not an issue.

  13. It’s no one’s job to keep you stable. It’s your job to contend with your own instability.

  14. You are the only remedy for your suffering.

  15. You created X when you disowned the truth. When you own the truth, X disappears.

  16. You couldn’t end up with an ‘addict’ unless you were also an ‘addict’ yourself.

  17. Stop leaving here to go ‘there’ and the ‘problem’ dissolves.

  18. Addiction is what you choose in lieu of owning and applying your power.

  19. It hurts so you can learn how to not do that shit that hurts you.

  20. What's a little more poison when you're already sick?

  21. Every descent reaps more gold.

  22. The only ‘tool’ you actually need is custom-built into each moment.

  23. You don’t actually want to be saved. You want to be the Master of yourself and the domain that’s housed by you.

  24. You ‘struggle’ where you’ve yet to own and apply your power.

  25. Stop buying into your own bullshit and you’ll be just fine.

  26. One must abandon themselves in the attempt to fill through external means what can only be satisfied internally through learning how to not self-abandon in the first place.

  27. Once upon a time, I fed myself to a wolf. I knew he was a wolf. And I wanted to be devoured.

  28. Your willingness and capacity to suffer with and for another, is not love (for yourself or the other).

  29. You only need to ‘cope’ when you choose to leave home.

  30. Regardless of the ‘issue’, it’s about your relationship to power.

  31. You only feel the need to ‘escape’ when you’re existing unnaturally.

  32. Addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively manage the discomfort of an inner deviation.

  33. Your ‘issues’ are adaptations you created in lieu of being you.

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  1. Wakey-wakey, bitch.

  2. The answer is more butter.

  3. Even when I'm single, I move like I'm taken.

  4. I’m here to destroy and be destroyed.

  5. I’m high on my own supply of gorgeous fucking energy.

  6. I haven’t lost my magic. And that’s how I know I’ve won.

  7. You are the aesthetic.

  8. Kill it with consciousness.

  9. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

  10. Permission to be cunty.

  11. Growing out loud is what I do best.

  12. They can be however they want to be. I’ll make my moves accordingly.

  13. Being with someone ugly steals your pretty. I’m not talking about looks. But those go, too.

  14. The greatest cosmic joke is that we take any of this shit seriously.

  15. “I’m just following orders. Take it up with the Lord.” How to respond when people question your moves.

  16. I don't plan. I'm pulled.

  17. I have zero chill. And all of it.

  18. God damn, I turn myself on.

  19. It’s so silly not to be in love with me.

  20. If you want or need something from a call with me, it’s not time for a call with me.

  21. Your existence is confronting to those who’ve yet to face themselves.

  22. Hail nothing.

  23. Batshit sane.

  24. Everything's coming up Mandy.

  25. I joined a cult and I’m on drugs now.

  26. The less you do, the hotter it is.

  27. Names are not called. They are made known.

  28. #erectionsforeveryone

  29. Others aren’t distracting you. You’re using others to distract yourself.

  30. If you made your dating choices from your lower self, you may be entitled to compensation.

  31. The cosmos shift when I’m on my shit.

  32. Drop a bomb. Disrupt the grid. Leave the scene. Repeat.

  33. I don’t care how it appears. I know what’s going on.

  34. If you’re not getting hotter by the day, you’re doing it wrong.

  35. She’s only a bitch if you are.

  36. I’m no peach.

  37. The world; she owns. By IT; she’s owned.

  38. WHO. GIVES. A. FUCK. DO. WHATEVER. THE. FUCK. YOU. WANT.

  39. “Hey, I ignored myself. Can you do me a solid and correct it on your end?” What you’re actually saying to someone when you ask or expect them to change.

  40. That never-ending ‘healing’ journey creates more problems than it solves. Kidding. It solves nothing.

  41. Why would I be less me for anybody? The more me, the better. For everybody.

  42. If your shit can be fucked with by another making moves, your shit clearly needs a good fucking.

  43. Since when does a god have to try?

  44. You’re an absolute genius. Fucking act like it.

  45. The glow up is infinite when you keep current with yourself.

  46. Full self-ownership is my kink.

  47. I am hell to be with. I am heaven to BE with, too.

  48. Stop buying into your own bullshit and you’ll be just fine.

  49. Anything you rely on will be stripped from you. You may as well strip yourself.

  50. If you’re not being transported, then what’s the fucking point?

  51. It’s either me or your shit. Never both. It’s always up to you.

  52. Why would you put the mentally ill (human) in charge of your life?

  53. “It’s their loss.” No, it’s not.

  54. If you hold space for your shit, you're gonna have a handful of shit. And that shit multiplies.

  55. Your insistence on sticking to what you said you would do, instead of making the new, true move, is why your experience fucking blows.

  56. Is my genius taking over your timeline? Boofuckinghoo. And you’re welcome.

  57. The world doesn’t need saving. Nor do you or anyone else. #sorrynotsorryjesus

  58. You’re not at the mercy of the planets.

  59. I’m here to fuck shit up.

  60. If there’s a box, I’m gonna smash it. Sounds sexual but I don’t swing that way.

  61. You do what you’re told by them. I do what I’m told by me.

  62. Why block? Let them see you be great.

  63. You gotta ride your own dick.

  64. Until they say, “Who IS this bitch?”, my mission is not complete.

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Mandy Bites On Death

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  1. Death is nothing more than dropping form and remaining formless.

  2. Every being chooses when it enters and leaves this world. As well as what it enters into.

  3. The longing for death, at the deepest level, is the desire to live unbound.

  4. It’s always the most tender where you hold the most matter.

  5. Grief is perceiving through the lens of loss.

  6. Death isn’t a loss.

  7. I like a man who grunts and groans while feasting on his kill.

  8. If you didn't say it to me while I was alive, don't say it to others once I'm dead.

  9. Everything makes you more. Regardless of what you’ve ‘lost’.

  10. I’m here to destroy and be destroyed.

  11. It’s only death.

  12. If you’re not ready to off yourself, I’m of no use to you.

  13. You can only ‘destroy’ what wasn’t truth to begin with.

  14. I love myself. I love being free of myself.

  15. Kill or be killed? No. Kill and be killed. Repeatedly.

  16. Kill it with consciousness.

  17. Every descent reaps more gold.

  18. I’m not going down there to get you. You’ll have to find your own way up.

  19. I don’t care how I’m remembered. I care how deeply I’m known.

  20. My pieces are not inclusive. I speak to the bold. The brave. The hungry (for death).

  21. All I want is to destroy you. Strip you bare and leave you for dead.

  22. He has to die to be with me. As does anyone else.

  23. Once upon a time, I fed myself to a wolf. I knew he was a wolf. And I wanted to be devoured.

  24. From the outside, it looked insane. To my human, it felt like hell. But obliteration was what I was after. Why else would I have danced right there?

  25. You haven’t lost anything. But if you’re ballsy enough, and you’re doing it right, you’ll lose EVERY. SINGLE. THING.

  26. Stay where it's most alive, as everything dead falls away.

  27. You’re not truly living if you’re not perpetually dying.

  28. You think it’s too risky to be wild. So you’d rather play dead to stay ‘safe’.

  29. You want to leave because you’ve yet to fully own you. And there’s no greater pain than that.

  30. He is where I go to die.

  31. We’re all on our way out.

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Mandy Bites On The Devil

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  1. I use the Devil to get closer to God. And Hell to get closer to Heaven.

  2. The devil will never announce his arrival. Your system always will.

  3. The war, the hell, was (already) within. Perfectly out-pictured through ‘abuse’.

  4. No one has the power to pull you into the lower, let alone keep you there.

  5. The nightmare grants you access to the dream that was always there.

  6. The ‘narcissist’ isn’t the villain. They simply exposed you to you.

  7. Hell is mistaking illusion for truth.

  8. Ignoring yourself is expensive as hell.

  9. Hell / sin / evil / the devil is just a deviation from truth.

  10. You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.

  11. He’s caught in the delusion he’s at the mercy of his beast.

  12. I don’t play games with those who play dirty.

  13. The devil gets in through the cracks.

  14. Once upon a time, I fed myself to a wolf. I knew he was a wolf. And I wanted to be devoured.

  15. From the outside, it looked insane. To my human, it felt like hell. But obliteration was what I was after. Why else would I have danced right there?

  16. it’s the darker things / that lure me in / forbidden pleasures / and beautiful sins

  17. i shall tie you to a pillar / as an offering to the gods / and then i shall consume you / make a drink of your sweet blood

  18. the devil keeps knocking / but i won’t go out to play / i’ve been burned over a million times / right here is where i’ll stay

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  1. Too many people have tamed their beast. An animal isn’t meant to be caged.

  2. The powerless surrender to illusion. The powerful submit to truth.

  3. I like a man who grunts and groans while feasting on his kill.

  4. How can you command a thing when you can’t command yourself.

  5. it’s the darker things / that lure me in / forbidden pleasures / and beautiful sins

  6. to be adored / and to be your object / the tender and the raw / the poetic and the vulgar / my freedom and your reign

  7. Truth creates a level of tension that very few can withstand.

  8. The edge you seek is truth.

  9. She’s only a bitch if you are.

  10. I am hell to be with. I am heaven to BE with, too.

  11. He has to die to be with me. As does anyone else.

  12. All I want is to destroy you. Strip you bare and leave you for dead.

  13. True Dominance and Submission is the energetic tension that can only come from a deeply powerful state. Since most can’t generate, hold, or withstand such a thing, they use force, rules, rituals and tools to (over) compensate.

  14. Enter the belly of the imagined beast.

  15. I don't correlate masculinity with men.

  16. Being in my power activates his.

  17. Increase the tension or relieve the tension. It all comes down to this.

  18. If you could properly lead yourself, you wouldn't seek or need to be led.

  19. A man who is fit to lead, doesn’t want a follower.

  20. A man who is fit to lead, doesn’t aim to lead another.

  21. The only people who can actually lead, are those who are already self-led.

  22. They want to FEEL powerful. Not actually BE powerful. Exert power over. Not establish power within.

  23. ‘Facing the Beast' aka enduring yourself at the hands of yourself.

  24. If your goal is to please her, you’re doing two things wrong.

  25. ​​Your weakness repulses her.

  26. FUCKED. OWNED. LOVED. DESTROYED. This is what she wants.

  27. The less you do, the hotter it is.

  28. Inaction gets you more action.

  29. Make. Her. Wait.

  30. Don't join her in her emotions.

  31. Stop. Moving. Towards. Her. She’ll naturally come to you.

  32. If he can't even lead himself, how could he lead you?

  33. Almost every man on the planet is energetically limp as fuck. If that offends you, then good. If you want to change that, even better.

  34. The alpha overcompensates. The Beast is in his natural state.

  35. The alpha wants to lead. The beta wants to be led. The Beast wants neither thing. He leads by being himself.

  36. alpha / beta / divine masculine. It’s all just limp dick energy.

  37. He’s caught in the delusion he’s at the mercy of his beast.

  38. She’s most aroused while in the void. Only The Beast can meet her there.

  39. She erects The Beast by not accepting less than his best.

  40. She has the time. Just not for you. She’s in the mood. Just not for you. She’d do it all. Just not for you. Because your game is weak.

  41. One’s dominant energetic state is independent of gender.

  42. You think it’s too risky to be wild. So you’d rather play dead to stay ‘safe’.

  43. Your wild isn’t meant to be tamed.

  44. The world; she owns. By IT; she’s owned.

  45. To the energy within, she freely submits.

  46. i shall tie you to a pillar / as an offering to the gods / and then i shall consume you / make a drink of your sweet blood

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Mandy Bites On Waking Up

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  1. Wakey-wakey, bitch.

  2. It’s not your job to wake people up. It’s your job to be, and remain, awake. Regardless of who’s sleeping.

  3. When your lens is constantly purifying, you see it all for the very first time.

  4. Life will force the expansion you’re not willing to take on your own.

  5. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

  6. Waking up shatters every fantasy.

  7. If you’re not waking up unburdened by what was, you’ve still got work to do.

  8. You don't need something to wake you up when you're already awake.

  9. Your habitual state is not your natural state.

  10. Existing wide awake IS the happening.

  11. Go to bed empty. Wake up empty.

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  1. Actions speak louder than words? Energy speaks louder than both.

  2. Don’t honour your word. Honour yourself. The truth in THIS moment. Regardless of what you’ve said.

  3. What IS speaks for itself.

  4. It’s not polite if it isn’t true.

  5. Avoidance is passive. Non-engagement is active.

  6. Names are not called. They are made known.

  7. What’s false is justified. What’s true needs no defence.

  8. Don’t announce it. Just do it. They’ll get the message loud and clear.

  9. Withholding truth is still untrue. It’s just another form of deceit.

  10. You need to be willing to say NO without having something to say YES to.

  11. Speak the truth or walk away. It’s the loving thing to do.

  12. You can't access the MORE while saying yes to less.

  13. The human makes excuses. The being just says NO.

  14. There are times when silence is the absolute truth. And times when it’s used to avoid it.

  15. Saying nothing says everything that needs to be said.

  16. Words can’t override the truth of where you are (or aren’t) and make what’s not true, true.

  17. You wouldn’t need to draw a line with words if the line was energetically there to begin with.

  18. You don’t have to talk about it when you are IT.

  19. Your existence teaches more than any words or teachings will.

  20. A ‘king of the people’ speaks directly to the codependent hearts of the (m)asses.

  21. My pieces are not inclusive. I speak to the bold. The brave. The hungry (for death).

  22. Energy can’t be hidden. And words can’t hide what IS.

  23. You get what you say yes to. And all the shit that brings.

  24. Ignore the words. Feel what’s true.

  25. And not a word was spoken.

  26. I use my words to carry me home.

  27. If the words are right but the energy is wrong, trust the energy.

  28. The Dom commands without a word. The directive is known. Felt. Obeyed.

  29. Drop a bomb. Disrupt the grid. Leave the scene. Repeat.

  30. Don’t say the right thing if it's not the real thing, too.

  31. My body tells me more than your expressions ever could.

  32. Until they say, “Who IS this bitch?”, my mission is not complete.

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  1. Swallowing truth makes you sick.

  2. Love doesn’t enable dysfunction.

  3. We each create exactly what we’re inevitably here to dissolve.

  4. The perfect distraction leads to forced concentration on the thing you weren’t willing to face.

  5. When you’ve deviated from the truth and natural movements of your being (a complete betrayal to your system), the only way to live with that internal split is to distract yourself with self-created 'issues’ that would not exist (and ultimately don't) had you remained in your power (your natural state) in the first place.

  6. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

  7. You are the only remedy for your suffering.

  8. It’s no one’s job to keep you stable. It’s your job to contend with your own instability.

  9. A ‘disorder’ is just the dirty version of a clean and rejected desire.

  10. A 'disorder' is a defence against reality.

  11. The ‘disorder’ dissolves once you do for yourself what you’re trying to do through the other.

  12. Personality Disorder: Seeing self / life / others through a temporarily distorted lens.

  13. Personality Disorder < Personal Reality Disorder < Personal Reality Distortion

  14. Co-morbidity doesn’t exist. The second is just a compensation. But hey, so is the first.

  15. Why would you put the mentally ill (human) in charge of your life?

  16. You can’t reason with insanity.

  17. The 'narcissist' and his so-called 'prey' are equally sick and addicted. (Peep The Narcissist Collection)

  18. The ‘narcissist’ is only the symptom. The actual problem is you.

  19. The more you self-abandon, the more symptomatic you become.

  20. The more you focus on symptoms, the further you stray from truth.

  21. Every 'symptom' has the same origin.

  22. Every 'symptom' has the same 'solution'.

  23. What's a little more poison when you're already sick?

  24. Regardless of the ‘issue’, it’s about your relationship to power.

  25. You don’t ‘heal’. You see straight. That’s it.

  26. You can’t ‘heal’ your way out of the illusion that ‘healing’ is required.

  27. That never-ending ‘healing’ journey creates more problems than it solves. Kidding. It solves nothing.

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