Energetics

Sanna On Not Helping Others (A Transcript)

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From one of Sanna’s lives:

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How do you turn down a person that clearly needs help just because it’s not a turn on for you to work with them?

How do you justify the lack of the turn on?

How do you say No someone that needs help?

I don’t know if you see how twisted that idea is.

How morphed it actually is.

How backwards the thinking is.

Because when you say No to someone that’s not a turn on, you’re actually helping them.

Saying yes to someone that is not a huge turn on is you taking on someone that doesn’t need your help, doesn’t need you, doesn’t need your art.

It is not the thing that they require in that moment.

And in that decision to surrender, you end up creating a container for something that was never supposed to happen.

Something that is a manufactured, artificial thing that is not an actual experience for anyone.

That is, in fact, wasting your time and their time, all because you don’t trust your turn on and you don’t trust your No.

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Cheating (An Essay)

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Cheating isn’t a mistake.

It’s a choice.

It’s a decision to hide and to deceive.

And…

It’s a weak and powerless move.

Because it’s ‘easier’ to sneak around than to muster the strength to be fully transparent with the one you claim you love(d) and ‘risk’ whatever comes from that.

And of course you have your reasons (excuses) not to live in truth.

Everyone does.

To not demonstrate your love for yourself and another by being honest about what already is.

You’re scared.

You have something to ‘lose’.

You don’t want to hurt them.

Whatever the fuck.

Still weak.

Still powerless.

Still not taking full responsibility for yourself and your choices and doing what needs to be done.

Being with others isn’t an issue.

Hiding that you are, is.

And even that isn’t the real ‘issue’.

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The Next Isn't Better (An Essay)

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I’d rather do the work within the current dynamic than to swap it out for another (supposedly ‘better’) ride.

The next one won’t be ’better’.

The same work will meet me there, too.

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So I do it from exactly where I am and what I find myself in.

The ‘next’ I actually want and crave, arises directly and naturally from that.

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Good Morning (An Essay)

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It’s about going to bed and waking up empty.

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Completely at peace.

Detached from all of it.

Having done whatever was required that day to untangle yourself from whatever web you got yourself into.

It’s about dealing with the inner mess / movement / turmoil until you’re still and empty once again.

Until you stop caring at all.

Not in a heartless way.

In the purest way.

The way you already are underneath all that you are not.

It’s the detachment from caring about what does or doesn’t happen.

What is or isn’t happening.

The sweetest and most natural place to be.

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