The ‘narcissist’ was the symptom.

The actual ‘problem’ was you.

The problem was your orientation towards yourself.

The problem was what you were not yet conscious of.

The problem was that you were looking outside instead of in.

Which isn’t actually a problem.

It’s just an opportunity.

And it was the ‘narcissist’ that hand-delivered it to you.

Serving you up to yourself until you finally got it right.

Until you saw yourself clearly and naturally moved accordingly.

Until you took all the responsibility you were handing over to another.

Until you stopped blaming others for what you were doing to yourself.

Sure, they were ‘using’ you for ‘supply’.

So what?

You were using them to become greater.

They were the catalyst that catapulted you into the stratosphere of genuine power.

If, and only if, you were smart enough to do the work.

So…

The ‘narcissist’ was never the problem.

They were the gift.

The invitation.

The initiation.

Into you.

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