Relationships Don't Need Work (An Essay)

Relationships don’t need to be ‘worked on’.

Nor do they require any level of sacrifice.

It’s not necessary.

Or energetically sound.

The vibe of trying,

reaching,

abandoning

(even just a little)

for or because of another…

kills the potency (and purity) that makes every dynamic thrive.

‘Working on’ the relationship and focusing on the other inevitably creates an energetically limp (even if the bond is intense) and codependent experience for both parties.

The intense fire you actually crave comes from never leaving home.

From working on THIS; not that.

Because THIS is all there is and that will adjust accordingly.

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