Breakups Aren't Necessary
Breakups don’t break what needs breaking.
Being the living truth does.
That is what moves what needs moving.
It recalibrates every piece.
People ‘breakup’ in the physical because they don’t yet know how to break their attachment in the non-physical.
They’re trying to do ‘out there’ what they’ve yet to accomplish ‘in here’.
Thinking that rearranging ‘those’ things will inevitably take care of ‘these’ things.
It won’t.
Those things will remain messy things until you’ve actually cleaned up these things — full stop.
Which doesn’t mean ‘stay together’ (even that’s not ultimately real).
It means there’s no need to contrive an end.
The separation / split you seek happens of its own accord through energetic truth (integrity) — not through an intellectual decision or an emotional reaction or a physical representation of IT.
And…
There is absolutely no way you can be in complete integrity (which almost no one is) AND be in a dynamic that requires severing something in the physical in the first place.
You would not have ended up there.
And even from that erect place, you can and will still apply any true move, which may of course include a physical separation — in truth; not in compensation.
But the work and the break is first done in the unseen.
The rest follows suit quite naturally.
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