Energetics
Externals Aren't The Indicator (One Minute Clip)
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Abandoned (Mandy Bite)
You only need to 'cope' when you choose to leave home.
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Tight Rope (Mandy Bite)
About That Thing In The Way (An Essay)
You don’t do it because of that thing.
But that thing is there precisely because you aren’t doing it.
Do it despite that thing and that thing just disappears.
Don’t do it because of that thing and that thing stays right in place.
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True Submission (Mandy Bite)
The Pattern Of Addiction (An Essay)
Addiction is an energetic pattern.
It’s not about the form / substance / person.
They’re interchangeable.
And until you succeed in shifting what actually needs shifting (which goes beyond just stopping something in the physical), you’ll naturally and inevitably replace one addiction with another.
You’ll unknowingly redirect that same addictive and still very active pattern to another spot (and likely return to the original spot), unaware that the pattern itself bleeds across the board until it actually gets cleaned up.
Even if you do manage to stop A, B or C in the physical, either temporarily or for good (which you take as proof that something has changed - that you have changed),
unless you also make the energetic shift required to dissolve the pattern altogether, nothing has truly changed at all.
You just ‘quit’ that one thing, only to continue the same pattern with this or the next thing, thereby proving that the specific addiction was never the actual issue.
What’s sourcing the pattern of addiction, IS.
And until that’s ‘resolved’ (seen through and turned back into nothing), it’s gonna keep shape shifting and fucking you up.
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Self Betrayal And The NO (An Essay)
You really can’t override living in a NO.
You either stop doing that or you suffer.
There’s no sorting it out and making it right from within the cage of self-betrayal.
Because the ‘issue’ IS the self-betrayal;
not the actual NO itself.
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We're All Fucked Up (An Essay)
We’re all fucked up.
Who cares?
The human condition(ing) makes it so.
And…
We’re all perfectly intact despite the fuckedupness.
It’s both.
Human + being.
I don’t know one human who actually has all their shit together (whatever that means).
Not one.
But I know that every being exists perfectly and beautifully beyond the human shit.
And that every human touches and experiences even more of their brilliant being, both through and because of it.
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How To Make It Happen (One Minute Clip)
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TRANSCRIPT
Him: “Things are probably about as good as they’ve ever been for me. The more I let it happen, rather than try to make it happen, the more it does happen. But there’s still a part of me that sometimes gets caught up on ‘How do I make this happen?’, whatever this might be.”
Me: “Which comes from a lack of trust in your own being to orchestrate that on your behalf by doing what you’re compelled to do in each moment, and thinking that somehow might not be enough.”
Him: “Yep.”
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Triggered AF (An Essay)
The other isn’t the reason you get triggered.
Your experience of the other is just showing you where you’re at.
And it’s perfectly highlighting what you’ve yet to contend with.
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Fools Rush In (Mandy Bite)
It’s absurd how little it actually takes to arouse and sway the m(asses).
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New Chapter (Mandy Bite)
No Biggie (Mandy Bite)
Something Over Nothing (One Minute Clip)
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Now What? (Mandy Bite)
You can't fix an illusion.
And every 'problem' is an illusion.
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Sledgehammer (Mandy Bite)
They’re not against you just because they’re for themselves.
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A Terrible Fate (Mandy Bite)
Humans are gonna human.
An inevitable and terrible fate.
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Resistance (Mandy Bite)
Twisted Sticky Shit (An Essay)
You can’t have an expectation / demand / condition for how or when another person should behave for or in response to you…
and call that love.
You can’t point to what you’ve done for them (gross) in comparison to what you think they’ve yet to reciprocate (eww) as a way to justify why they should now perform / abandon / contort themselves for you like you clearly did for them (why else would you be keeping score)…
and call that love.
That’s manipulation.
Control.
Twisted, sticky, icky shit.
If it’s not given freely,
truthfully,
lovingly,
unconditionally…
why would you even want it?
You’d rather a performance than the real deal?
You’d rather have it the way your ego scripted it than the way it actually is?
You’d rather another do for you what you’re not willing to do for yourself?
Absurd.
People can move and exist as they wish.
You’re free to do the same.
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