Every day is love day ❤️
If we’re not working towards loving ourselves more fully each day (which inevitably and naturally benefits those we love and the world at large) then we’re missing out on a pretty epic love story.
You actually don’t need someone else’s love and attention and acceptance and validation before you begin to enjoy your life or to fall in love with yourself (or to at least stop hating yourself).
Why would you wait for all that good stuff when you could be giving yourself those gifts right now?
Valentine’s Day means nothing to me but love means everything to my heart so I have a message for those who may be dreading tomorrow.
If you’ll be waking up “single” (I prefer the term “with myself”) and that bothers you because maybe you’re dreaming of a delicious partnership and feeling bummed that you don’t have one yet and tomorrow’s silliness just rubs that “single” reality right in your face ... then my wish for you is that you wake up and declare it YOUR day.
And on YOUR day I would like you to treat yourself the way you hope your beloved will treat you one day, and I want you to tell yourself the things you want to be told by your beloved, and I want you to buy yourself the things you’d want your future partner to buy you (if gifts are important to you), and I want you to do the things you’d want your future lover to do with you, whatever that is.
Because a) the beloved you’re searching for is actually you anyways and b) who knows, maybe your intoxicating and ever-increasing love vibes will magically draw the hottie you desire to you while in your state of utter bliss.
Regardless, you 100000% have the power to bring yourself happiness, joy and pleasure right now with your thoughts and your actions.
And just imagine how much more delicious your future love story with another will be once you’ve taken responsibility for your own tingles and yumminess. So good!
There’s something super hot about those who don’t depend on others to feel good or to get their needs met and instead take the time to cultivate and share their own fullness with other full souls who are equally passionate about talking full responsibility for themselves while investing time and energy into enriching the lives of those around them.
So even if you were dreading tomorrow, it’s not too late to write a new story that features YOU as the star of it.
You really are the beloved you crave.
To love in all its forms,
(Sweet art from the heart by Gabriella Rosie)
P.P.S. If an erotic, poetic, insightful and vulnerable real-life fairytale is your kinda thing, I invite you to explore my soul's offering, The Poet & The Butterfly Collection.