I haven't dated in well over a year. Most days I feel like I might never want to again because the process itself feels so unnatural. I much prefer random and magical encounters. A lovely gift out of nowhere that leads from one thing to the next. An unexpected moment-by-moment unfolding that's not based on the superficial, scripted, guarded exchanges that are all too prevalent among most of us when we're trying to impress or score.
I'm after the mystical. The rare. The raw. The beautiful.
I only want what's real. An imperfect stranger that's perfectly suited to me. One who has zero "game" because being sincere and vulnerable is where it's at. Being genuine, honest, and respectful is incredibly sexy and appealing in anyone.
And even if I'm not experiencing it myself yet, I'm always grateful when someone I love finds something extraordinary with another. I'm happy when my loves are happy. I include their joy in my daily gratitude list because if it's around me, it's getting closer.
I find it so affirming to witness the magic unfold between two people (like I did the past two nights...so sweet and beautiful) because it gives me hope that one day I too might find a human I can not only tolerate, but want to know and love intimately as well.
I am always inspired by the few people I know who have met and fallen in love with the person of their dreams after many struggles and attempts along the way.
So while I do love break ups a whoooole lot, I sure don't mind seeing a new romance unfold right in front of my eyes. We all benefit when love is on the scene because it's a reminder of who we are at our core. Magical beings of light and love.
Just think, if the whole world fell in love with themselves and/or another, what a beautiful world this would be.
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